How to get my boyfriend to forgive me?

If I remember correctly, it was via one of those online GP practices. So the antidepressants were legit but I didn't really discuss my problems withe GP properly.

Most people have to go through a few combinations of meds before they find the ones that are right for them. Maybe the medication was not right for you thats why you felt worse.
My advice would be to see another psychiatrist. If it really is bipolar disorder then the right medication would help you get your life together. But you cant just diagnose yourself.

For cheating and spending quite a bit of his money recklessly. What would it take for you to forgive something like that?

For cheating and spending quite a bit of his money recklessly. What would it take for you to forgive something like that?

For cheating and spending quite a bit of his money recklessly. What would it take for you to forgive something like that?

I honestly don't know why I made that stupid thread back then. I just wasn't myself. But yeah, it is the same person of course.

I'm really surprised by all the hate your getting, it's not as if your a paedo.
What you did is not that bad because most people have done the same thing and have no conscience.
At least you realised it was wrong. I'm sure he will forgive you if it's only one time. Lots of women spend their partners money recklessly on stupid things like clothes, shoes, handbags. That's what i call a waste of money plus it's his fault for letting you do it so don't worry about wasting his money.
Just try to make it up to him by buying him things like aftershave or whatever men like or paying for both of you on nights out sometimes. Arrange something fun like a restaurant or cinema, fun fair like Winter wonderland in Hyde park in December etc

If you think your ever going to cheat again ask to go on a break first but hopefully you won't and you have learnt your lesson not to do it again but the best way to make it up to him is to never cheat again.
Plus some women think bad boys are fun and men who are too nice to them are not exciting, i don't know why anyone finds bad boys fun, their **** heads but i prefer the nice guys. Anyone that prefers bad boys deserves to be treated like crap by them and deserves no sympathy. You should never want someone to treat you badly.
Some people don't realise how lucky they are but it's only after they make mistakes they finally realise they have a good thing. Just tell him that.
We all make mistakes but as long as you learnt from it never to do it again then it's ok.

Thank you, that's really nice of you. This is the kind of advice I was after. I hope he will forgive me..


Because I made two stupid mistakes? We've been together for a long time, so 2 reckless things really don't reflect how I usually treat him.

But I don't want anyone else.

Me me me me me me. What about him? Do you think he wants to be shackled to a cheater who clearly seems to prioritise themselves?

Well, it's up to him.

Weekend. I don't know why to be honest. I was drunk? Bored? Hyper as hell. He found out from our mutual friend - the person I slept with is(was...?) their partner. I know, stupid move. Should've never done that, at least not in their house. I don't know what possessed me to do that.

Yeah, if you were his man, you would be gay.

Because he's a man.

your a horrible girlfriend

he deserves better so **** off, and weren't you the girl who was saying how you are sick of your "nice guy boyfriend"? now you want him back?

Lool

I thought it would be something stupid like make up or clothes, didn't realise it was something that stupid

I am emotionally stable most of the time.


I'm a man.
Now that we no longer have those little gender signs next to our nicknames, I've to keep explaining this to people. Thanks TSR.


I know what this looks like. But sometimes I just feel as if I'm possessed or something. When my mood shifts from depressed to really hyper I just do really stupid things sometimes. I know it's still my fault. Just saying.

Yes, but that doesn't change what you said.

Honestly, I would leave him, and rebuild your life with somebody else. Cheating is a breach of respect seldom recovered from.

Agghh... how can I always get someone's sex so horribly wrong!?



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I got it wrong too, before they removed the signs... I always forgot to read them.

I can't, I don't want another psychopath in my life, this is the only normal partner I've ever had.

The only normal partner you have had, and you throw him under the bus in a massive way? Why?

If you truly love this man, you will let him go. If you only love yourself and your wellbeing, you will stay.

I say this from a position of knowing exactly what a psychopath is.