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Do most muslims truly save themselves until marriage?

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Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

Haven't exactly counted but many.

roughly how many? are you asian and are the people asian too or do you prefer black/white

Reply 201

Rorytymon

From my experience at uni the Muslims from UK are more western in values so tend to have sex before marriage. However the ones from India or Arabic countries are more traditional and save it. Seeing as you don't seem to be orthodox I'd say you are more western but don't let religion dictate what you do.

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Anonymous #9

Original post by Anonymous

roughly how many? are you asian and are the people asian too or do you prefer black/white

Probably 100+ but really don't know. bare in mind that this is with only 2 guys in stable relationships. I'm of pakistani origin and both of my boyfriends were white.

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Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

Probably 100+ but really don't know. bare in mind that this is with only 2 guys in stable relationships. I'm of pakistani origin and both of my boyfriends were white.

hmm so you're single now? also how old are you?

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Anonymous #9

Original post by Anonymous

hmm so you're single now? also how old are you?

Well I'm ha img sex with another guy now and he seems like boyfriend material. Lmao why do you want to know my age, you flirting with me (?)

Reply 205

Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

Well I'm ha img sex with another guy now and he seems like boyfriend material. Lmao why do you want to know my age, you flirting with me (?)

ngl I like paki girls :tongue:

Reply 206

Anonymous #9

Original post by Anonymous

ngl I like paki girls :tongue:

Wait, so are you a Muslim guy?

Reply 207

Warrior Gene

Cant say about the name name sake (whose name only sounds muslim) muslims, but real muslims.. yeah they do save themselves until marriage.

Reply 208

riyadhussain123

This thread is jokes, hope everyone's using condoms :biggrin:

Reply 209

Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

Wait, so are you a Muslim guy?

maybe, maybe not.

Reply 210

riyadhussain123

Original post by Anonymous

Probably 100+ but really don't know. bare in mind that this is with only 2 guys in stable relationships. I'm of pakistani origin and both of my boyfriends were white.

100+?? don't you get tired of it :biggrin:

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Anonymous #9

Original post by riyadhussain123

100+?? don't you get tired of it :biggrin:

Why would I, sex is great

Reply 212

username471863

Original post by Anonymous

I've been saying the exact same thing to that snake. She commits the biggest sin in islam and hates muslims...so why doesn't she just become an atheist? Lol. Instead of ruining the life of whichever chump gets stuck with her ..she might as well just leave..then write a book about how oppressive our religion is, make some money off it and then generally make the lives of the 1.6BN Muslims that little bit worse. I honest wouldn't mind if she did that.

She made a good point: women would not feel the need to lie about it if there weren't so many double standards. I have left the religion, but before when I was a Muslim I had sex. Wanting to have premarital sex is rarely a strong enough reason for Muslims to leave their religion, as many keep in mind that they can just repent later on. It was many other things about the religion that I disagreed with which made me leave.

But it would do you well to stop playing the victim. I have no intention of writing a book about how much I hate your religion (I don't even hate it, I just think that there are many wrong teachings but am otherwise apathetic). Most former Muslims just go on to try and enjoy their lives as much as possible and don't bother trying to find ways to victimise you, it is actually the Muslim community that makes life difficult for many of us, whether we are in a Muslim majority country or not. Are we the ones threatening to kill you over your faith, and succeeding in killing you? Are we shunning and isolating you?

Reply 213

loveleest

Original post by Aman7

Everyone is different. You can't just label Muslims like that. Some Muslims believe in sex before marriage is wrong and some probably believe its fine. Exactly the way Christians or Sikhs or Buddhists would have their own belief. So they're not all he same and its a dumb question to ask.

Lol clealy it's not "fine" if it goes against their religion?

Reply 214

Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

Why would I, sex is great

I thought you wanted to proceed to the next stage

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Anonymous #9

Original post by Anonymous

I thought you wanted to proceed to the next stage

Huh (?)

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Anonymous #9

Original post by Anonymous

Reasons why I say lack of control clearly demonstrated above. All you guys had to do was wait a couple of years lol. Most people get married by 24/25 some get married even earlier during uni. A lot of people regret this type of stuff. Unless you're a complete something beginning with w and ending in e and the middle that rhymes with core. You end up developing serious feelings for your first. Oh well.

So your a virgin because you want to be, out of choice, but my decision to have sex doesn't come from choice but rather from a lack of control ? Lol, sort out your disgusting double standards you shameless hypocrite.

and there we go, calling girls who are confident with their sexuality whores. lord I pity the girl who ends up with someone with such medieval and sexist beliefs.

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riyadhussain123

jeeeez people need to chill on this thread, it's no ones business to judge someone if they had sex before marriage or after marriage. Can people just get along, have some bants instead of offending each other and stop being d****