Am I bored of him?

What saddens me is how you've only come to this conclusion after other guys showed interest.

You seem like a real catch..

Obviously the long distance aspect is taking its toll. Is there any way that you can see him more?

There's nothing wrong with your relationship fizzling out. It's very common, especially when you're young. Though it is probably most kind for you to tell your boyfriend honestly how you feel. From there you can figure out whether you want to work on it or go your separate ways.

After 8-9 months of dating my boyfriend, i'm kinda bored, but not sure if it's because we've been in long distance for about 3 months and i'm tired of it. I'm not as romantic as I was and, things don't excite me enough like before... it's not like i'm lazy to leave cute or sexy picture for him or other things like that, I'm just not bothered or motivated anymore. But we're coming up to 9 months and I think I need to sort it out or at least do something nice.

I did see him recently for 3 full days but, after it , I felt kinda after and started to get a bit irritated with him and just not satisfied and i've been advertising myself more like my instagram is always private but, i've made it more open and been getting guys adding me on snapchat. I don't flirt with them, but I do find some hot. But it's got to a stage where any good looking guy is more hot than my boyfriend.

No, it isn't really because of that. Guys have shown some interest before, and i've been only focused on him. It's i'm not sure if i'm over the distance and it;s desensitizing my feelings towards him or if it's because I'm tired of the relationship.

Also, although I mentioned they add me, I don't answer or talked to them in my DM. All I do is like pictures and gossip with my girls if I find some attractive. Which is common. It's just that i've had this supressed and in a way couldn't do this or even look at guys when it wasn't long distance (if that makes sense). So i'm getting sensory overload and admiring other guys. But I don't want a relationship with them or to hook up.

Yes it sounds liek its run its course.

Finish with him properly as it looks tacky flirting on instagram when you are supposedly still with your bf.

But I don't flirt, I just like pictures of generic hot guys that i'm never going to see. And I did say that I don't talk to them in DM. so, I kinda don't get how it's flirting if i'm honest

Leave him. He deserves better.

The second part if that is idiotic. You can't control who you're attracted to. And OP hasn't flirted with anyone else

The second part if that is idiotic. You can't control who you're attracted to. And OP hasn't flirted with anyone else

True, and it's all premeditated and I haven't cheated. It's simply looking at others compared to not being able to look at others when I'm with him. But now I am away from him, I can admire others.

True, and it's all premeditated and I haven't cheated. It's simply looking at others compared to not being able to look at others when I'm with him. But now I am away from him, I can admire others.