I don't wear bras...HELP!

This probably sounds really weird but I struggle to talk to mom about things likesex, bras, periods and all this stuff right. So when I need bras I literallydon’t know how to tell her. I feel so incredibly awkward and I end up delayingit until I just never tell her. So she randomly purchased bras for me in year 7and 8. Then I needed new ones for year 9…and I was too afraid to ask so I survived year 9,10 and 11 without a bra. I’ll be starting year 12 and I need a bra. Ido. What do I do? I don’t know how to ask. I don’t know how to buy myself oneeither. Furthermore, this is slightly off topic but I started my menstrualcycle in 2011 October. It is now August 2016 and I still have not told her. Howcan I tell her? It’s so awkward, I don’t know what to do with myself.

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Reply 1

Bananapeeler

if you know your size couldnt you order some online?

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Original post by Bananapeeler

if you know your size couldnt you order some online?

Probably but I need to overcome this awkwardness and I don't know how to do it :frown:

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UWS

Original post by Anonymous

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Ah, okay, thanks for confirming

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Anonymous #1

Original post by UWS

Ah, okay, thanks for confirming

Would you like some visual evidence?

Reply 6

Bananapeeler

Original post by Anonymous

Probably but I need to overcome this awkwardness and I don't know how to do it :frown:

Yeah this isn't my forte, how did she just forget about your boobs for 3 years??

Reply 7

UWS

Original post by Anonymous

Would you like some visual evidence?

Nah, I don't want to see breasts on TSR. I already see enough online :smile:

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Bananapeeler

Yeah this isn't my forte, how did she just forget about your boobs for 3 years??

I...I don't know! I literally go out and you can see the shape of my breasts and my nipples when its cold. It's horrendous.

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PrincessBO$$

Original post by Anonymous

I...I don't know! I literally go out and you can see the shape of my breasts and my nipples when its cold. It's horrendous.

Do you get stares?

Reply 10

Bananapeeler

Original post by Anonymous

I...I don't know! I literally go out and you can see the shape of my breasts and my nipples when its cold. It's horrendous.

Uh well I mean option A, you could try and ask your mom to pick you up some bras or option B, wear XL hoodies for the rest of your life

Reply 11

username944192

Wtf...a) you don't HAVE to tell your Mum if you started your period, and b) you're in year 11? Go shopping and buy yourself a bra ffs.*

Reply 12

RDKGames

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Can't tell if this thread is a joke or not. Just go buy some on your own!

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Bananapeeler

Uh well I mean option A, you could try and ask your mom to pick you up some bras or option B, wear XL hoodies for the rest of your life

Option A is preferable but option B is more realistic.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by RDKGames

Can't tell if this thread is a joke or not.

I am being absolutely serious. I have issues discussing things like these with my mom.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by infairverona

Wtf...a) you don't HAVE to tell your Mum if you started your period, and b) you're in year 11? Go shopping and buy yourself a bra ffs.*

How can I discover my size? In year 8 it was 34 something...

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by PrincessBO$$

Do you get stares?

Sometimes. Hard nipples are not too bad but the cone shape of my breasts is awful. I hate it.

Reply 17

Bananapeeler

Original post by Anonymous

I am being absolutely serious. I have issues discussing things like these with my mom.

I would gradually repossess your moms bras, avoids all of the drama

Reply 18

RDKGames

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Original post by Anonymous

I am being absolutely serious. I have issues discussing things like these with my mom.

I'm not a girl so I can't exactly relate, but why do you think that you must tell her? Be a bit more independent and go buy those boob holders. It's not that hard. You go into a shop wherever they sell bras, you pick one out that suits you (I'm sure they have changing rooms for these?), you pay the pretty cashier girl the money for it, go home to your bedroom, and put it on. Repeat this process for however bras you need.

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Reply 19

username944192

Original post by Anonymous

How can I discover my size? In year 8 it was 34 something...

If you go into somewhere like M&S they can measure you. Or if you have a tape measure you can measure yourself at home, google it and there's a tonne of tutorials *