there is a girl who i've known for months now, who's become a good friend. The problem is that we talk loads online, but we hardly see each other in person. I've always had feelings for her, have tried numerous times to get over her but haven't been able to.
The thing is, she says that when she first met me she saw me as boyfriend material, but after a while she realised I was more a good friend.
That's fine, but the thing is, she also fancies me like crazy. We've slept together a few times but have both agreed we'd never do that again as it wasn't a good idea. But she's always gone on about how insanely hot i am, how I know how to turn her on, how amazing my body is etc. She wanted us to be FWB, but I refused as I wanted more.
And she's always said I'm such an awesome guy, I'm so kind, funny, etc. but she just didn't see it working with me, and has struggled to move on from her ex anyway.
She says that's just the way it is. She really wants us to stay friends, she starts a lot of conversations with me and stuff, but I need to move on.
Has anyone else got any other friends they may see like this? I'm guessing that there's something in my personality I don't have that she wants.
What might be the reason for only seeing someone as a good friend even if you fancy them?