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Sex for room

So this guy lives in an apartment by himself. A really lush apartment in an expensive side of London. I'd love to move out but can't afford London prices. This guy has an offer, sex in place of rent. I wouldn't have to pay rent or bills, all I have to do is have sex with him...


Is this a bad idea? A part of me is okay with that but I don't know...
What do you guys think?

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Are you seriously debating this? Do you even have any self-esteem? Make your decision based on that answer.
Original post by Anonymous
So this guy lives in an apartment by himself. A really lush apartment in an expensive side of London. I'd love to move out but can't afford London prices. This guy has an offer, sex in place of rent. I wouldn't have to pay rent or bills, all I have to do is have sex with him...


Is this a bad idea? A part of me is okay with that but I don't know...
What do you guys think?


yeah this sounds like a bad idea....

please please please just think to yourself what kind of crazy f*ck thinks that this is a valid thing to ask someone.

Respect yourself a bit!!
I wouldn't if I were him - technically you can't put that into a legal contract so you could literally just lie about giving him sex, especially if you claimed you'd give it to him "later" and then never get to that day. he couldn't sue, and he probably wouldn't even like the public finding out that he even attempted that kind of arrangement
It's your decision to make. A few things to keep in mind;

- Your relationship isn't exclusive, therefore if he chooses to sleep with others there's risk of STD's.
- Since you are under no contract/tendency agreement, he can at any moment decide he's had enough of you = no home.
- The psychological effects on your self-esteem. Do you REALLY want to be used for sex?
- Oh, and he's probably sh*t in bed and won't be bothered at all with your pleasure.

Your call. I wouldn't advise it, personally, but who am I to say how they live their life?
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This is an incredibly sleazy arrangement and if you even have one iota of self-worth or dignity, you would reject his perverted proposal and tell him to shove it up his arse.
Original post by Anonymous
So this guy lives in an apartment by himself. A really lush apartment in an expensive side of London. I'd love to move out but can't afford London prices. This guy has an offer, sex in place of rent. I wouldn't have to pay rent or bills, all I have to do is have sex with him...


Is this a bad idea? A part of me is okay with that but I don't know...
What do you guys think?


how well do you know this guy?
It's simple. Do you want to be a prostitute?

Yes > do it
No > don't do it.
Please don't do it.
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Original post by RDKGames
Are you seriously debating this? Do you even have any self-esteem? Make your decision based on that answer.


not really :redface:

Original post by splashywill
yeah this sounds like a bad idea....

please please please just think to yourself what kind of crazy f*ck thinks that this is a valid thing to ask someone.

Respect yourself a bit!!


He's just a busy person who doesn't have time for relationships



It would be safe sex ofcourse. That's true I'm scared he could kick me out at any point...
I've never done anything like this so I wouldn't know how it would affect me :redface:

Original post by splashywill
how well do you know this guy?


He's a friend of a friend but I don't know him too well :\
This sounds like a really cool offer

I would totally take it up!

*providing he is tested for STDs, isn't like 50 and doesn't have some messed up stuff 8===LD
Free sex bruv...take it fam
Original post by RDKGames
Oh dear...


Don't be surprised. Women love money more than anything. It's the harsh truth you will eventually realise.
Original post by Anonymous
A part of me is okay with that but I don't know...

really?:facepalm:
no words.the other posts say it all.......
No don't do it, work hard and save up


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Original post by Gorillion
Don't be surprised. Women love money more than anything. It's the harsh truth you will eventually realise.


Perhaps that. But low self-esteem is what one of my close friends have experienced the last few years after she was raped by her own 'boyfriend' back then. Not saying in this case it's rape if she consents verbally but low self-esteem and submission seem to go hand-in-hand from what I've seen, and that just makes me upset. :frown:
Original post by Anonymous
So this guy lives in an apartment by himself. A really lush apartment in an expensive side of London. I'd love to move out but can't afford London prices. This guy has an offer, sex in place of rent. I wouldn't have to pay rent or bills, all I have to do is have sex with him...


Is this a bad idea? A part of me is okay with that but I don't know...
What do you guys think?


Is this hypothetical or is this actually happening to you? I will give you the advice you want, this sounds weird.
Original post by Gorillion
Don't be surprised. Women love money more than anything. It's the harsh truth you will eventually realise.


It's not because of money i just need to live on my own bc my parents are quite abusive and I need to get out :redface:
Are you serious. Really. Reiterate that to your parents. Honestly. Imagine telling your future partner that you had sex to pay for rent? It aint no porno. Its you. ****ing a guy. For rent. Would rather sleep cold on the streets then no I have given up my body. Also what guy would do that? Got a nice pad in London? He's a rich prick who will **** you then ditch you. no room. just the traces of his semen. You really think he wont get sick of your body? your considering it. so there is a lot of fools who would do it. Use and Abuse its his game. I know girls who are addicts and started off in similar circumstances. There a trend ive noticed.

Dont be stupid. Its your life do what you want but Christ. Please look after your self
I know!! Become an escort! People pay ££££ for you to sleep with them overnight. Money + A place to stay!



I am of course being sarcastic. I'd rather you didn't do this. You'll find another solution!

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