I think I like girls more.

I'm beginning to find other girls hot, first it was admiration but now, I find myself staring and admiring them more and checking them out. Problem is, I'm in a relationship and it's kinda serious. And he's guessed that I found some attractive but, I'm confused to why I get jealous when it comes to pretty girls and him? Maybe I just need to be open and also admire them with him. But, I don't really know what to do.. i'm going back to teh stage where I find girls more attractive than guys.. but I love him and he's one of the only guys i've fully had a crush on and wanted beyond crush stage. But, I wouldn't cheat on him so i'm kinda stuck...

Be honest with yourself, could you see yourself being in a relationship with a girl or having sex with a girl or is this more of a naughty fantasy thing?

Watch lesbian porn and see how it feels...

Done that before and preferred it more than the hetero one. And if anything, looked at the women more . But haven't even watched any since i've been with my boyfriend if i'm honest.

Suggest a threesome with your boyfriend, he'll love it

So you find women more attractive... thats fine. But the question is, do you see yourself in a relationship with one - along with sex. Or would you prefer to stay with your boyfriend. Think about it, don't rush yourself. Speak to your BF about it, I think it will bond both of you because at least you'll be comfortable opening this up with him. I think it's a good idea, you can both talk about your interests of the same gender without any awkwardness

If threesomes are not for you (they never work out well, only for the very few that have nothing to gain from it/minuscule minority) then it's best to leave that aside and don't encourage him about it.

Yeah I will, and it's not that i find women more attractive than my partner. he's the only male i've actually liked . so probably more to do with the rest of men. But i see what you mean, just had to correct you on that .

I'm going to say what nobody else will...You NEED to make up your mind about what you want ASAP. Dragging out this desire for something you can't have will only hurt both of you in the end.

I've read the other replies in this thread, and your reasoning behind not taking any action as far as being a flaming bisexual, but not wanting to shock or hurt your boyfriend. And frankly, you have 3 options.

1) You tell your boyfriend you like women more than guys, but still want to be with him. He'll probably ask you what your type is, and if you two have similar tastes, he'll probably try to check out girls alongside you. You've said in an earlier thread that this idea doesn't appeal to you (because you're a jealous territorial girlfriend). Simply tell him you're not comfortable with that, and if he's a good person, he'll stop. But you should be aware that it's either THAT or the second option, which is;

2) Break up with him so you can have sex/date whoever you please without worrying about hurting somebodies feelings. This is the simplest option, but the hardest.

3) You COULD ask your boyfriend is he would mind an open relationship. Meaning, you two can have sex with anyone you want on the sidelines, but relationship stuff would strictly be between you two. "Non-monogamy, is what I believe this is called. If he isn't into it, which most people aren't, you should probably break up with him. The attraction to women won't just go away on it's own.

You really gotta decide already. My goal isn't to be harsh, but to help you. Which option would be best for you?