My mum made me cry :(

My mum made me cry today and said really mean things about me behind my back which I overheard and can't get over :frown:

now she's trying to be nice to me but I hate her I hate her I hate her :frown:

and not I'm crying again :frown:

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Reply 1

Anonymous #1

*now I'm crying again

Reply 2

1secondsofvamps

Yup this has happened to me so many times before, but then I get over things really quickly and end up forgetting it ever happened

Reply 3

loveleest

Sorry to hear that OP xx

Reply 4

Napp

When you say you 'hate her' I assume you mean you're mildly miffed and will be rosey again come desert?

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Napp

When you say you 'hate her' I assume you mean you're mildly miffed and will be rosey again come desert?

I don't know if you're trying to joke here but what I mean is I feel betrayed and like I don't love her anymore. After what I've heard her say, all I see is a cold woman when I look at her regardless of her nice phoney fake act that she's doing now

Reply 6

Zeus007

That's not nice, try talking to her about it and tell her how you feel. I'm sure she will understand and won't upset you again.

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

My mum made me cry today and said really mean things about me behind my back which I overheard and can't get over :frown:

now she's trying to be nice to me but I hate her I hate her I hate her :frown:

and not I'm crying again :frown:

Aww baby

don't be sad. Here's a hug :console:

. This happened to me once, I felt incredibly sad. But I realised what she said isn't true and is wrong. You should talk to her about it :frown:

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zeus007

That's not nice, try talking to her about it and tell her how you feel. I'm sure she will understand and won't upset you again.

Talking to her doesn't help :frown:

she just tells me to not care so much and be happy then goes and talks about me behind my back to my dad calling me bitter and sadisitc and crazy when im not, I'm just sensitive

Reply 9

Little Popcorns

Original post by Anonymous

My mum made me cry today and said really mean things about me behind my back which I overheard and can't get over :frown:

now she's trying to be nice to me but I hate her I hate her I hate her :frown:

and not I'm crying again :frown:

What'd she say?

Reply 10

PurpleDelight

Don't really know the back story but I think as youths we spend so much of our feelings on people who we regard as important in our lives. Yes our mothers are VERY important people in our lives but don't make another human being make you feel less than/upset. You're your own person

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Aww baby

don't be sad. Here's a hug :console:

. This happened to me once, I felt incredibly sad. But I realised what she said isn't true and is wrong. You should talk to her about it :frown:

I can't stop crying I don't know what to do :frown:

I can't go to her and talk about it because she'll see that I've been crying and tell me off for crying because I cry too much

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by Little Popcorns

What'd she say?

She was giving me driving lessons in her car and I couldn't reverse park into a bay even after trying 5 times and I started crying and acting moody towards her and she said she couldn't teach me anymore and good luck to any instructor who attempts to teach me and I said well maybe your just a rubbish teacher and drove home.
Then i overhear her talking to my dad saying she is mad and crazy she's not mentally sane, I've been telling you this for so long she's not right in the head. Then starts calling me bitter and sadistic and mopey and kept going on about how I wasn't mentally right 'up there'. I can't help that I'm a sensitive person and cry easily :frown:

Reply 13

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

Talking to her doesn't help :frown:

she just tells me to not care so much and be happy then goes and talks about me behind my back to my dad calling me bitter and sadisitc and crazy when im not, I'm just sensitive

Not nice at all, but dont let it damage you. You can let both parents know or just let it wash past you, but work really hard to ensure you get to Uni and become independent.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by Little Popcorns

What'd she say?

And She knows I've been diagnosed as being on the autistic spectrum which is why her words were even more hurtful

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I can't stop crying I don't know what to do :frown:

I can't go to her and talk about it because she'll see that I've been crying and tell me off for crying because I cry too much

Baby

I understand don't worry, you cry, let it out because if this happened to anyone. We are all here for you -hug- x

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by 999tigger

Not nice at all, but dont let it damage you. You can let both parents know or just let it wash past you, but work really hard to ensure you get to Uni and become independent.

I'm already in uni and going into my second year but I'm stuck at home during the summer holidays. My parents won't let me live in my rented house in London during the holidays :frown:

I wish I wasn't so sensitive to everything

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Baby

I understand don't worry, you cry, let it out because if this happened to anyone. We are all here for you -hug- x

Thank you

you're very nice

Reply 18

TercioOfParma

I feel like there is some context missing, what led to all this?

Reply 19

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

I'm already in uni and going into my second year but I'm stuck at home during the summer holidays. My parents won't let me live in my rented house in London during the holidays :frown:

I wish I wasn't so sensitive to everything

can you go back early? you are nearly there now, plys if youd been working then you would have to be in the house less.

Get good grades and then you will be bale to afford a place of your own.