Guys, could you live in your current relationship with no sex?

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@eden3 maynneeee.... no bustin nuts? MAYNEEE

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No chance. What do you take me for? ***** can **** off if she ain't gonna **** me.

Also, there is no such thing as an asexual woman. Humans by definition are not asexual. Unless you mean she is frigid or sterile, in which case that is a different story.

Fair enough you wouldnt thats fine but calling her a *****..dont be so soft. Why would she be a ***** just because she is like that?

Lol, I don't see how that's being soft. Women try to use sex to manipulate men into doing whatever they want. Withdrawing sex is a commonly used tactic, but sex is part of every healthy relationship. So any woman who deliberately does that in order to sabotage a relationship is a ***** in my books.

You never heard the saying "B*****s be crazy"?

Ah I see why you are angry now, yes some girls do that to be nasty and use sex as a form of control but there are some people, if few, who just have low sex drive (women and men). Also for some women intercourse hurts for various reasons. They may not give a definate no to sex but would be hard to initiate passion/intimacy with if they are not the touchy/feely type and if they arn't so keen on intercourse. In the op I didnt mean saying no to sex in order to control.

Low libido is a medical condition, sometimes as a result of depression which is easily treatable. It's no excuse for giving a man the cold shoulder and deliberately annoying/manipulating him just cos she doesn't want to see a doctor about her problem. The same goes for girls who have a healthy sex drive but use sex to blackmail men - they do it deliberately in order to get a reaction out of a man. That's unacceptable. Which is why any woman in a relationship who doesn't want to have sex is a ***** - because she can easily do something about it but she chooses not to. Instead they make life more difficult for men and then blame their own problems on us.

If a woman isn't the "touchy-feely" type then she needs to be honest with a man and tell him straight up instead of welcoming his advances but then telling him to stop at the most inconvenient times. How would you like it if a partner did that to you? Fair enough, girls might not always be in the mood for sex as much as guys but if she is consistently withdrawn and not making an effort, I wouldn't blame a guy for telling her to **** off and moving on.

In some situations though is it control as problems in the relationship etc can affect sex drive. I think libido can often differ slightly for men and women as in for a man it tends to be more black and white and responds to visual input ie he is attracted to a woman or he isn't. With women I think it differs slightly in that they often have to feel emotionally attached to the man to feel turned on. If she has sex and isn't turned on it can hurt a lot. Though this could be used as an excuse by a woman for not having sex I think it's important to bear in mind. Again you say that any woman who doesn't want sex in a relationship is a ***** but I suppose it's hard for someone with a good sex drive to understand that some just arn't that keen on it. For example I can get turned on a little by specific things in foreplay but kissing or intercourse do nothing for me, in fact intercourse hurts. Though I can see how it would be pleasurable for a guy.