This is something that has been bothering me for a while now and I don't know what to do. I am male and am 18 years old and my boss is 30 and female.
I've worked with her for about a year and it has only been in the last month or so I've become more serious about it. I'd say for the first few months I didn't think anything of her that much but then I started to develop a small crush on her and it seemed innocent enough but the thought of it started disturbing me and I feel disgusted by it. This next part may sound slightly offensive and I don't mean it to be but when I have a crush I usually have unrealistic standards but my boss isn't the most attractive of people she's slightly overweight but I still find her really attractive though other people don't.
She's done a lot for me since I've started in terms of work and helped once or twice in my personal life and since I'm not good with girls (never dated or even had my first kiss) and since she is pretty much the only one that seems to act like she cares I I'm confusing it with attraction, though I am not a therapist so am probably wrong.
To make matters worse she often jokes about us together. For example saying something complemented the colour of my eyes, rubbing my leg once and then in front of someone jokingly said "I was the only man for her." since she got divorced. I know that all these things she is probably only joking but it seems to subconsciously stick with me and I often seem to picture myself losing my virginity to her and it seems to be eating away at me. What should I do?