She Didn't Sleep With Me Last Time We Were Together

Whats thirst got to do with it? All males are thirsty its called genetics.

I would have thought people would be supporting me and telling me good decision as I exited the relationship.

I was hoping anyone with similar experiences would say something.

"I tried to make her understand she was being boring and all her friends had done it"
Basically you tried to force her into sex through peer pressure and shame.

I don't know what makes you think that having a penis makes you entitled to sex but there's nothing about owning a penis that means your needs are more important and that you deserve sex.

If a girl says no, you listen. If she had relented, you could have found yourself on the wrong side of a rape charge. You're probably just trolling so I'm really responding for other young men and women who may be reading. It's not okay to guilt anyone into sex (regardless of gender). No means no. Physical sexual arousal like an erection does not negate someone verbally saying no. You can have an erection or be otherwise aroused when you don't want to be.

It's not okay to make someone feel bad for not wanting sex. It's not okay to whine about how much you want and need sex or threaten to leave if you don't get sex. If you threaten to leave and sex happens, that sex is actually rape. You're creating an environment of fear, you're a rapist. If you're doing any of the behaviours I've mentioned you'd be a bully and a potential rapist.

Consent is not that difficult.

I'm sorry you feel that way.

What other option did I have?

shes not boring for not wanting to have sex !! its not all about sex! it sounds like thats all u care about so u dont even deserve to have a relationship if thats all your after

Strong post to username agreement here.

You know, I am actually a "nice guy", I have been called white knight, SJW, for having views similar to the ones you expressed in this post.

BUT I am sorry to say, your over the top reaction to this is the reason there are more and more guys out there become more and more chauvinistic and menists.

He wanted sex, he tried to get it from the girl he wasn't in a relationship with, she didn't, so he ended it. If anything, I think he behaved exemplary here. Because a) he didn't cheat and b) he didn't force.

And b) is the problem. Your attitude here is completely unacceptable. Sex is nothing special. He wanted something from his relationship. He used certain tactics to try and get it. Women do this all the time, and don't even deny that. But somehow because it's sex, that is no longer fine? Somehow because it's sex, your post makes it sound like he almost raped his gf? Do you not even realize how absolutely ridiculous that sounds? How you sound? Talking about erections and rape?

How about this?

It's not okay to make someone feel bad for not wanting to buy another handbag. It's not okay to whine about how much you want and need a handbag or threaten to leave if you don't get a handbag. If you threaten to leave and you get a handbag, that handbag is actually blackmail. You're creating an environment of fear, you're a blackmailer. If you're doing any of the behaviours I've mentioned you'd be a bully and a potential blackmailer.

Op, ignore the mass stupidity above. The Social Equality Fairness Correctness Justice Please Help 50/50 Rights Nismfem poision.
You are justified. The reason she wasn't opening for you is because of your beta demeanour. You didn't excite her, you revealed all. She would do dirty things only for an alpha. You most likely came across as needy.

You see for a moment I thought you were decent. Then you told someone they were justified in trying to coerce sex and carried on with the alpha-beta poop.

Challenge your personal opinion that being "alpha" would result in aroused maidens falling at their feet to do unspeakable things??

I'd rather not follow you into the rabbit hole.

EDIT: OP had already done what I told him and she came back


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