Well, for the hair (I can imagine is a nightmare, removing hair isn't disliked anymore, even I might in future) try this
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Nads-Men-Hair-Removal-Cream/dp/B003JFJF5E it removes it without any cutting, you just put on for like 5 minutes I think and wipe hair off (read instructions as I'm not 100% sure but I'm thinking of getting it too)
Oh I had the strip and say d is small, they all laughed.... it means yours is big... they get jealous have you even seen the average in inches? 5.5inches... go and check if yours is bigger (majority of gays have ABOVE average).
To loss weight, check what you eat add the ingredients up from back of package do not go over 100%, try to get a stragety, I mainy target saturated fat I barely focus on anything else (protein has to be a pirority) keep saturated fat at 100% (20g like females) that way you'll get a natural jawline.
For breakfast, ceral (for me anyway) is like 1-5% of everything except protein which is like 10%... frosties etc; Lunch try for 20% saturated fat and then anything you want for dinner (got to keep you somewhat full till morning, as anything pass 7pm = more fat)
If you have vegetables 4-5 times a week it fights inflamed skin and ance cuts down dramatically and gives your face a natural glow.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Neutrogena-Visibly-Clear-2-in1-150ml/dp/B000T9197U/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=drugstore&ie=UTF8&qid=1471980138&sr=1-1&keywords=visibly+clear+2-in-1 -> use this in morning leave on for 5 minutes (what I use anyway, it fast-track removes the red spots and blackheads... also don't touch or more come and keep hair off skin as it causes it... if you have ance on forehead thats why)
Do workouts such as for me I do..
v-ups 3 sets of 30
press ups 4 sets of 25
push ups 4 sets of 25
+ some gay ones I'll PM if you want to know them :P (not dirty)
> Run daily on spot/around the house on bottom floor or around a circle in bathroom count to 120 seconds.
If you want a good jawline, chewing gum once a day for 20 minutes strengthen your chin muscles.
Face up with fears by doing it, just don't give a fuc* and do it. As you progress and understand it more, your self esteem/confidence will boom.
Hope this helps somewhat.