should i message him???? :/

this guy messaged me on facebook, and we spoke for about 6 days. he seemed interested in me and we got on really well. he asked me for my number and so i gave it to him...

but he hasn't contacted me :/ it's been 4 days...
i don't understand what's gone wrong.

should i message him or leave it??
i'm so curious to know why he hasn't contacted me..

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Reply 1

username1884577

You've known him for no time at all... Calm down

Reply 2

iThrow

sounds like he's following standard operating procedure. you wouldn't respect him if he immediately phoned/texted you

Reply 3

forever_confused

Original post by A-LJLB

You've known him for no time at all... Calm down

i know lol but i'm so confused...
he's read the message.. but hasn't text me.

Reply 4

username1884577

Original post by forever_confused

i know lol but i'm so confused...
he's read the message.. but hasn't text me.

He's either playing a game i.e. not texting you as most guys think you shouldn't, due to not wanting to be seen as eager

or he's just not that interested

Just leave it

Reply 5

forever_confused

Original post by iThrow

sounds like he's following standard operating procedure. you wouldn't respect him if he immediately phoned/texted you

but it's been 4 days lol
why do guys play games?! i would love it if they just text straight away

Reply 6

forever_confused

Original post by A-LJLB

He's either playing a game i.e. not texting you as most guys think you shouldn't, due to not wanting to be seen as eager

or he's just not that interested

Just leave it

hmm okay

Reply 7

iThrow

Original post by forever_confused

but it's been 4 days lol
why do guys play games?! i would love it if they just text straight away

isn't a game lol it's just how girls force us to be. i'm sure all of us (guys that is) have made the mistake of texting/phoning a girl back too fast and her quickly losing respect for us. once bitten twice shy im afraid :biggrin:

Reply 8

forever_confused

Original post by iThrow

ah i see lol

do you think he's lost respect for me because i gave my number to him so easily? lool

Reply 9

username1884577

Original post by forever_confused

ah i see lol

do you think he's lost respect for me because i gave my number to him so easily? lool

Are you really that upset about a guy who you don't even know?
Hun just leave it

Reply 10

forever_confused

Original post by A-LJLB

Are you really that upset about a guy who you don't even know?
Hun just leave it

but it's weird because we spoke non-stop for a week and then he just stopped :frown:

lol
i know it's not long..
he even asked me if i want to meet up so i'm soooo confused.

Reply 11

username1884577

Original post by forever_confused

but it's weird because we spoke non-stop for a week and then he just stopped :frown:

lol
i know it's not long..
he even asked me if i want to meet up so i'm soooo confused.

He's not interested

Reply 12

JimmyHendrix

Original post by forever_confused

Does it really matter? Probably someone having a laugh with you, for all you know he could be a 53 year old Chinaman. The Internet is a weird thing.

Reply 13

forever_confused

Original post by JimmyHendrix

Does it really matter? Probably someone having a laugh with you, for all you know he could be a 53 year old Chinaman. The Internet is a weird thing.

Nah lol he's real hahaa
my friend knows of him

Reply 14

JimmyHendrix

Original post by forever_confused

Nah lol he's real hahaa
my friend knows of him

And is your "friend" trustworthy? Think about it, who can you really trust?

Reply 15

forever_confused

Original post by JimmyHendrix

And is your "friend" trustworthy? Think about it, who can you really trust?

yeah for sure :smile:

Reply 16

RelucBeam

No, he just isn't that interested. There are no intentional games here. We all talk to multiple people and you've been lowered in the list because your element of challenge has gone now that he has your number.