Would you consider this to be a lot of sexual partners?

You find it 'off-putting' that a girl slept with that many people.

1) That wasn't the question she asked
2) You probably think that a guy sleeping with the same amount of girls is A-Okay
3) Again, nobody cares

So I'm a 23 year old girl. I lost my virginity at 16, and have since slept with 20 guys. 12 of these were from 16-18.

I'm not asking if I deserve any judgement or such for this, as I know this is not the case, but I'm asking how this compares to the average? Would it be considered a high number?

To be honest - this is a very presumptuous reply, and rather unnecessary too.. she was asking for an opinion.. that was an open and non-harsh opinion and there is nothing to say that he would think it's okay for guys - in fact, many guys who haven't slept with that many girls (which, also, isn't a bad thing), tend to think that, and that's fair really - each to their own.

She asked 'Would you consider this to be a lot?' She didn't need that. And, if it was his answer, it wasn't exactly 'open' and 'non-harsh'. And, also not really fair, just shows the double standards of the people-in regards to your last point.

Overreaction of the year award goes to....

She asked 'Would you consider this to be a lot?' She didn't need that. And, if it was his answer, it wasn't exactly 'open' and 'non-harsh'.

Lol, nobody cares for your blatant sexism.

Delete your account. That is not sexist in anyway.

It was a very fair and and 'non-harsh' response, indeed. It is clearly the opinion which you don't like - it was not framed badly... Whether people would 'consider this to be a lot' stems from such opinions.. the whole concept that their 'is' or 'isn't' a certain number which 'is' or 'isn't' okay, is a social construct formed on opinions such as those expressed. And if a guy is not being hypocritical, and has not slept with many girls, then that's a just opinion; it could be based on insecurities about a girl having more sexual partners, or simply that it conflicts personal principles which they also hold themselves to... and there is really no problem with that.. you should have really replied, simply : 'sorry, I don't like your opinion, shut up'. As that's the clear message. lol.

It was a very fair and and 'non-harsh' response, indeed. It is clearly the opinion which you don't like - it was not framed badly... Whether people would 'consider this to be a lot' stems from such opinions.. the whole concept that their 'is' or 'isn't' a certain number which 'is' or 'isn't' okay, is a social construct formed on opinions such as those expressed. And if a guy is not being hypocritical, and has not slept with many girls, then that's a just opinion; it could be based on insecurities about a girl having more sexual partners, or simply that it conflicts personal principles which they also hold themselves to... and there is really no problem with that.. you should have really replied, simply : 'sorry, I don't like your opinion, shut up'. As that's the clear message. lol.

Lol, no. Get over yourself.

You are paying too much time and investing too much of your effort on this girl

Poisonous example of the Feminist-SJW stench

No, not really. I'm just simply replying.

Well okay, this is a waste of my time.. it just annoys me that people respond to something, totally fair and reasonable, in such an unnecessary manner because they don't like another's opinion on a topic which is nothing but opinion.

It's fine. People who slut shame anyone need to get over themselves.