Sick of being a muslim woman

I am a 19 year old muslim female. On the surface, I appear to be the ideal muslim e.g. I wear the hijab, my clothes aren't very fitted (although I do wear skinny jeans- all my tops have to go past my bum). But I'm sick of it. After researching Islam, I don't identify with any of it. I genuinely believe religion is bs.

The thing is, I live in an area which is full of judgemental muslims and my mum would die of shame if I was to take my scarf off and start dressing how I want to (my father died when I was young so she wants her daughters to be seen as respectable as opposed to 'loose'. This year, I gained a place at manchester uni and I saw this as my way out, I thought going to uni away from home would allow me to dress and live how I wanted to. However, I missed the grades for manchester and had to settle for a uni closer to home so now I'm going to be living at home for uni.

So my dilemma is :should I just stick it out for 3 years and move away when I have a job or should I work hard at uni and transfer to a different uni for second year (but I fear being lonely cause everyone will know each other from first year)..whenever I stay over with my friends at their unis, I just love the freedom available to me and all I want is to live my life the way I want to live it rather than adhering to the rules of a religion which I do not identify with

Thank you TSR for banning that pedophile supporting lowlife .

There are no shortage of underage chavs engaging in intercourse. Aren't they not paedophiles surely? Yet early teens shagging is not only quite normal, its tacitly approved of by the government who reward teen mothers with houses and benefits. Why not get to the root of the problem and really tackle the culture of extra/pre marital relationships? The conservative government used to reward conventional marriage, nowadays popular culture almost sneers at these people like they are middle class fuddy duddies.

If the 9 year old had all the usual signs of physical maturity then its not paedophilia. Provided the families approve of the marriage and both of them gain then you can't argue with that really. What is worse is a drunken ONS between two uneducated 14 year olds; that is much more of a widespread problem in this country and the OP in rejecting Islam in a way is buying in to this subculture (not even subculture really its mainstream).

wow agreed!

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I'm going to keep this post short as I can't be bothered to type out loads of advice due to the likely event that it will be ignored completely.

1) If your mum objects she is not a good mother and you should try and ignore the subsequent fall out.

2) Just because you go to university close to home that does not mean by any stretch of the imagination that you have to live at home. You are well with in your rights to apply for university housing down the street to your family home if need be. You will have it approved no questions asked. Tell your mum you want to be independent and move out. If she asks why tell her it's none of her ****ing business.

3) Apostasy is a crime to some within the Islamic community. Tell your friends of your plan and have them look out for you. Do not trust anyone even uncles or brothers etc.

TL;DR just do what you want. This is the United Kingdom, the bastion of freedom and acceptance (contrary to what the social justice morons will tell you) Do what you want and be proud of it. The sooner you "come out" the better. Ask any lgbt person.

The west is no doubt very progressive and in some ways quite successful, but its become flabby and decadent.

Families are dysfunctional, they don't educate and discipline the young properly and boy is it starting to show; there are very few English people doing decent courses at the good unis now, its mostly funnily enough people from Asian backgrounds.

Most of the doctors, economists, dentists, IT people - very few of them are native. A large proportion of young natives now if they aren't delinquent chavs are becoming homosexual cuckolds lured in to studying *******s about women and the environment when we really want these ***** to be building bridges and splitting atoms.

All the western accomplishments came from decades/centuries ago, but what are the bloated ****tards doing now? Its all gone to China, India, Middle East because even if they aren't following the Quran, the South Asian principles ensure that the bedrock of society, the conventional nuclear family, is maintained rigorously

Best thing for westerners to do now is go right back to their Christian roots.

I have no problem with Christianity,

if it gets people to church every week and provides that core moral framework then fair play. Get the youth off of their computers, their phones, their social networking, twitter, tinder and all the rest of it and get them in the gym or doing hard physical jobs in the community or studying medicine.

No more homosexual cuckolded flabby deliquency but traditional family/gender/community roles, which of course Islam provides second to none.

Women in the domestic, pastoral fold and men in the corporate/physical environment.

That is close to our biological roots and how we have adapted since time immemorial. Progressiveism is killing the West these days.

I think Mohammad also said the value of a mother was worth 3 times that of a father - some lecture Zakir Naik gave online I'll see if I can find it.....

It wasn't really paedophilia back then because life expectancy was lower and even today women can hit puberty as early as 9/10. Westerners can't even agree on the age of consent whether its 14/16/18 and there is all this nonsense about whether a drunken woman is able to give consent or not. Bottom line if they aren't in education and they are physically mature, marry them off and make decent women of them, rather than corrupting/degrading both men and women having them mix in universities, in pubs/clubs, in the workplace.

Yah doctor is ok man. But they shouldnt be on a trade floor or a building site that is societally destabilising. Medical field is fine

Not that UK immigration policy is much better, with native Brits at the bottom and other white europeans given preferential treatment. Its so ridiculous that Romanian criminal gangs can slide in here and a doctor from Australia or India can't.

Western society is being undermined by constant gender bending.

We are ending up with 40 year old first time mothers, middle aged single men addicted to video games, teen mothers - its all part of the zionists elites plan to destroy western society from within.

That is what will re-mediate our ailing communities - get em off the mobile phones, the social media, the tinder, the twitter and away from light entertainers like Russell Brand and Graham Norton.

As I said intercourse with physically mature adolescents isn't paedophilia,

the life expectancy was lower, people didn't spend years at college/uni. Probably a 10 year old girl back then was somewhat fertile and her and her family stood to gain quite a lot from a union with a middle aged man. Provided both families agreed to the marriage there is no controversy here.

ISIS is BS. All Israeli armed/funded. Everything you have ever read about Islamic terrorism is a zionist fabrication.

Well I think copulations outside of marriage should be illegal anyway. Most women show signs of physical maturity at 14 so marriage should be legal from 14 upwards.

There are no shortage of underage chavs engaging in intercourse.

Aren't they not paedophiles surely?

Yet early teens shagging is not only quite normal, its tacitly approved of by the government who reward teen mothers with houses and benefits.

Why not get to the root of the problem and really tackle the culture of extra/pre marital relationships?

The conservative government used to reward conventional marriage,

nowadays popular culture almost sneers at these people like they are middle class fuddy duddies.

Try also to go abroad with Erasmus for your second year.

Which uni have you ended up going to?

How did OP get 23 reps though
And transfer after first year, if you're scared of not making friends then lmao u are not ready. I've completed first year of my course and i only know 0.01% of my group. It isnt sixth form lol.

I thought that after first year people have already established little groups and thats who they live and stay tight with in second and third year so I would feel kinda lonely trying to break into that

I think this whole discussion on the OP's concerns and the fact that pedophillia has been condoned and supported by Muslims, tells you a lot about what Islam is really like.
If Islam was the "religion of peace", the OP wouldn't have to make this thread, wouldn't have any of the concerns she does and pedophiles would not bed adored and pedophillia wouldn't be supported.

Hi, i definitely think you should think about why you would like to leave islam, and think about why you feel constrained to this thing called religion.
It's because religion is like a prison, there is no freedom in it.
Think about freedom, freedom that is available to all. I found that freedom in Jesus Christ my saviour xx

I am a 19 year old muslim female. On the surface, I appear to be the ideal muslim e.g. I wear the hijab, my clothes aren't very fitted (although I do wear skinny jeans- all my tops have to go past my bum). But I'm sick of it. After researching Islam, I don't identify with any of it. I genuinely believe religion is bs.

The thing is, I live in an area which is full of judgemental muslims and my mum would die of shame if I was to take my scarf off and start dressing how I want to (my father died when I was young so she wants her daughters to be seen as respectable as opposed to 'loose'. This year, I gained a place at manchester uni and I saw this as my way out, I thought going to uni away from home would allow me to dress and live how I wanted to. However, I missed the grades for manchester and had to settle for a uni closer to home so now I'm going to be living at home for uni.

So my dilemma is :should I just stick it out for 3 years and move away when I have a job or should I work hard at uni and transfer to a different uni for second year (but I fear being lonely cause everyone will know each other from first year)..whenever I stay over with my friends at their unis, I just love the freedom available to me and all I want is to live my life the way I want to live it rather than adhering to the rules of a religion which I do not identify with

I thought that after first year people have already established little groups and thats who they live and stay tight with in second and third year so I would feel kinda lonely trying to break into that

I am a 19 year old muslim female. On the surface, I appear to be the ideal muslim e.g. I wear the hijab, my clothes aren't very fitted (although I do wear skinny jeans- all my tops have to go past my bum). But I'm sick of it. After researching Islam, I don't identify with any of it. I genuinely believe religion is bs.

The thing is, I live in an area which is full of judgemental muslims and my mum would die of shame if I was to take my scarf off and start dressing how I want to (my father died when I was young so she wants her daughters to be seen as respectable as opposed to 'loose'. This year, I gained a place at manchester uni and I saw this as my way out, I thought going to uni away from home would allow me to dress and live how I wanted to. However, I missed the grades for manchester and had to settle for a uni closer to home so now I'm going to be living at home for uni.

So my dilemma is :should I just stick it out for 3 years and move away when I have a job or should I work hard at uni and transfer to a different uni for second year (but I fear being lonely cause everyone will know each other from first year)..whenever I stay over with my friends at their unis, I just love the freedom available to me and all I want is to live my life the way I want to live it rather than adhering to the rules of a religion which I do not identify with

Have you even studied islam yourself properly?

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Islam is a beautiful and peaceful religion.
i please recommended reading the Quran

They have been indoctrinated with what the media feeds them.