I'm 21, Sikh and female, I wouldn't marry someone from back home at ALL. Not even 1% chance.
Generally, considering both my parents are from India but they're very modern to a certain extent. My Dad was here since he was 14 and Mum came 23 so there's no pressure for me to get married although..
Recently, me and my family went out to dinner. My Dad expressed an interest by getting me married off in 2/3 years and my sister 4/5. (Not to men from back home, same for our brother in regards to women). My Mum just laughed and brother didn't give a **** (he's 12 lol, thanks bro for the support)
My reaction was like "HAHAHAHA bye."
My sister was like "Piss off."
You can tell we're both so eager to get married 👰🏻🎩💍😂
I can understand his view point considering my Mum got married at 20 and he's not pressured me to get married at 20. Usually, from what I've been told men marry women younger and my Dad was 25 when he married my Mum.
Nothing serious, I was just in shock at what he said lol.