Can I just ask how do some girls get boyfriends so easily?

Okay thanks this is really helpful. But how do you usually flirt when you like a guy? Like what kind of things do you usually do? I'm talking about in person, as opposed to in text.
Also when you tell them you like them, do you do this via text or in person? And how do you word it exactly? The whole thought of it all just seems very awkward

It's kind of just something that comes naturally to me I'd advise you to pop on over to youtube and hit up that search bar I honestly don't think there's a right way

Okay thanks this is really helpful. But how do you usually flirt when you like a guy? Like what kind of things do you usually do? I'm talking about in person, as opposed to in text.
Also when you tell them you like them, do you do this via text or in person? And how do you word it exactly? The whole thought of it all just seems very awkward

I've done that already! And these cringey cheesy American videos come up, saying things no one in their right mind would say in real life

I'm a guy so I'll let you know what me and most guys I know will like:

1. Talk to him like you would normally talk to anyone else you're interested in. Find out about him.
2. If you like something about him, compliment him. Like "I really like your eyes" (this makes it plain you are interested in him as more than a friend). Maybe light touching.
3. Ask him to do things with you. Knowing what he likes (step 1) will mean you'll find something you both like doing.
4. Tell him you like him in a straightforward way.
5. ???
6. Profit (or move on if he doesn't like you back)

I think most guys would respond positively to the above. If he likes you, you'll probably only need steps 1 and 2. 3-4 won't be necessary unless he's really shy.

Good luck.

I'm really picky with girls. The last girl I was with I didn't even want to shag her at first lol. She was just really flirty and then she said something interesting during a group convo while I was hosting a dungeons n dragons night. Which made me want to talk to her more about it later on. But then she spent the whole night tryna get close to me on the sofa etc. while everyone was still there. Ye then that all just progressed super fast to sex, then friend with benefits, then a relationship and room sharing cus we're poor students who need to save money on rent etc. lol.


So I reckon, just be flirty and try to skip BS. Like don't make the dude jump through hoops or anything. Then they'l start thinking of you like GF material. The majority of guys want a laid back, chill girl who'l have sex with them. Just don't push it if they're not attracted to you. You can just be straight forward and ask if they're attracted to you tbh and if they say no then your time won't be wasted.

I'm not willing to casually have sex with a guy though or do friends with benefits :/ so where does that leave me?

You make it sound so simple but in my friendship group at uni, the girls especially, all see a girl as quite desperate if she's going around being that forward with a guy. And I lack so much confidence with guys, I can't ever picture myself just going up to a guy and saying these things. Your advice is very good though, so thank you

You make it sound so simple but in my friendship group at uni, the girls especially, all see a girl as quite desperate if she's going around being that forward with a guy. And I lack so much confidence with guys, I can't ever picture myself just going up to a guy and saying these things. Your advice is very good though, so thank you

I'm not willing to casually have sex with a guy though or do friends with benefits :/ so where does that leave me?

*that* forward? talking and light flirting? lol. How do your friends meet guys then?

Fake confidence. Do you think guys asking girls out are confident? most are not, we fake it like a boss.

I went to an all girls school and 6th form yet despite that some girls there still found boyfriends and met guys fairly easily whereas I did not know a single guy in all 7 years.
Then I go to uni which is known to be a male dominated uni where you'd think my chances would be sky high at getting a boyfriend but no, a big fat ZERO! I have guy friends but that's it, no ones asked me out, never kissed a guy sober. I have kissed a few guys drunk but they haven't messaged me the next day or when they see me around they don't really converse that much with me.
What am I doing wrong?! I'm in a sports society at uni and it's mixed sex where a few people have found met other guys through it and dated, whereas for me there had been ZERO interest.
Whereas some girls can literally get any guy they want or are barley single for more than a few months. Some of these girls aren't even good looking and I know that looks are definitely not everything, but they must have some attractive personality but what?

I really wanna know what I can do to improve myself, can you guys please please offer some, any advice!

What do you look like ?

Hi,

First, just be yourself. Don't try to change yourself for anyone. As long as you are pleasant, friendly with an overall endearing personality, boys will notice and want to be with you.

Two, don't fall for the BS about you having to sleep with guys to get their attention. Keep yourself from such rubbish. If you meet a guy and you feel that you have reached the point in your relationship to have sex with him, then proceed. If not and you want to wait for a better time, then abstain.

There will be people telling you to have sex to get with a guy because that was how they got their partners. This is sad because they used sex to lure a man, which does not say anything good about themselves. Also, some guys will actively encourage girls to sleep around, so that, at least, they can get some. So shun such advice.

My advice is that you look around familiar places such as your society, department, halls of residence or even local community. Attend social events and make yourself known in social circles (not in a bad or slotty way).

Finally, if things don't go well, don't be sad or downtrodden. Just continue being yourself and working on improving yourself. Not many people meet the "love of their lives" at university. You still have time.

All the best.