16 female still a virgin

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What have you been doing with your life

There's plenty of time for relationships as other people say.

I'm 21, male, and haven't found anyone worth losing my virginity to. Also many young people say they have had sex, there's a big difference between the two. The vast majority actually probably haven't had sex and are just trying to fit in. This is one of the most destructive forms of peer pressure.

You have the rest of your life to either find someone you love, or to find something who is totally irresistable, the best sex will be had between two consulting adults who are very mature, not with two teenagers or worse; one teenager and one adult, desperate to join in on some stupid myth about 'everyone having done it.'

I best most of those boys and girls 'wouldn't know where to put it.' <<<< And that's a GOOD thing, they have the rest of their lives ahead of them.

Best regards
Francis.

Reply 42

TheTruthTeller

It's 2016 does the pressure to lose ones virginity really still exist?

Reply 43

Anonymous #3

LOL I am 21 and still a virgin

OP should be proud.

Porn is the problem in this day and age I feel like that's what teens watch and aspire too.

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Magical_lyrical

Are you serious? You've only just reached the age of consent

Reply 47

Anonymous #5

Original post by Sena57.

getting really frustrated about still being a virgin getting to the point where I just want to lose it cuz people are making fun of me all the other girls in my class have already had sex, is this normal to feel like this?

So you want to have been raped in the eyes of the law? Bloody hell kids these days are stupid. The other girls in your class HAVE BEEN RAPED and it should be reported to the authorities as such

Reply 48

xnox

virginity is a myth, for females OR males at this age sex is not a necessity. I'm shocked that the normal age kids our age thing is right is 15-17. Please focus on your studies rather than stressing about whether you've broken your hymen or not. This goes for boys too. You have your whole life to have sex, and even if your first time is a one night stand it doesn't matter, but know your place, have enough self-respect for yourself to do what's right

Reply 49

Federerr

Definitely not Klaudia...

Oh yeh I got a story to tell you about wasteman and klaudia omg its so funny loool.

Reply 50

unprinted

Original post by Sena57.

all the other girls in my class have already had sex

I'd bet money that some of them are lying.

If you want to join them, the physical sensations of using a dildo are basically the same as having a penis inside you. As the emotional side varies so much depending on the circumstances, including who its with, you can say what you like about it.

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unprinted

Original post by Anonymous

So you want to have been raped in the eyes of the law? Bloody hell kids these days are stupid. The other girls in your class HAVE BEEN RAPED and it should be reported to the authorities as such

Some of them may have been.

But the OP is 16 and above the age of consent in the UK. Many of the other people in her class will also have been above the age of consent. If they weren't, but wanted to have the sex, then someone's broken the law but calling it 'rape' is inaccurate. Had it come to the attention of the police, it's likely no action would be taken for a non-abusive consensual sexual relationship.

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Anonymous #5

Original post by unprinted

It is still rape in the eyes of the law. The legal name of the crime that has been committed against these minors is STATUTORY RAPE. Notice the word RAPE in the name of the crime? It is not true rape, but in the eyes of the law it is still rape as they are minors and do not have the legal capability to fully consent to carnal activities.

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unprinted

Original post by Anonymous

It is still rape in the eyes of the law. The legal name of the crime that has been committed against these minors is STATUTORY RAPE.

Not here, it's not. Are you in the US?

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Anonymous #5

Original post by unprinted

Not here, it's not. Are you in the US?

No, I'm in the UK where statutory rape is rightfully a crime. These children have been raped, plain and simple

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unprinted

Original post by Anonymous

No, I'm in the UK where statutory rape is rightfully a crime. These children have been raped, plain and simple

You can think the latter, but not everyone agrees.

It's 'sexual activity with a child' if they're at least 13. When the relevant act was being passed, there was a statement that it wasn't the intention or in the public interest to prosecute everyone who could be caught with it.

And there's a section which means there are considerably lower penalties should the accused be under 18. If two 15 year olds are sexual with each other, both commit the offence - are the people in this case rapists too in your eyes if they were sexual with someone of the same age?

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 56

themarshmonster

im 18 and still happily a virgin (in fact I've never KISSED anybody) , don't worry, chances are that those girls in your class are lying. at least some of them, because they think it makes them mature. people are ready at their own pace, relax and things will happen eventually. if your still frustrated just think that there are people much older than you who are in the same boat. you have a whole lifetime for that, just enjoy yourself now.

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Anonymous #5

Original post by unprinted

Yes, they have both been raped but are also both rapists and should both be punished for breaking the law. The punishment for under 18s should be the same as 18 year olds as rape is a vile crime and rapists should be educated on and pay for their crimes

this generation.

I turn 18 in 2 months and still haven't lost my virginity. It's no big deal. Funnily enough, the girls I know that use to brag about losing there's were up the duff at 15. Ones expecting her second kid and she's only 17. So just chill and stop worrying.