Did I do the right thing by saying no

No you did not do the right thing here. What what if you're different? Yeah it's sh** if a relationship doesn't work out eventually but you can't nip it in the bud like this before anything has even happened because of something you perceive is bad

So basically I effed up. I don't think I can undo it since she doesn't even speak to me anymore. She's trying to avoid me, maybe it's normal after what happenend?

Doubt she was the love of your life, there will be plenty more.

How can she be if you dont even know if she likes you?

What was it you said no to? She propose?


If it were me, then id suggest you give it a go and talk to the person about your concerns about differences.

How can she be "the love of your life" if you told her no?

Then move on if she's not speaking to you anymore.
How did you eff up?

Well the fact that I lost someone I really like and a great friend. You know it didn't matter how bad my day was but if i speak to her, it'd cheer me up

Yeah she asked me out so I suppose she likes me. I certainly do. But this happened a while ago

At least you've learnt a lesson now. If like a girl, regardless of how different you think she is from you, ask her out and tell her how you feel, then you won't end up feeling like this

Just go back and ask her out, explain why you were worried first time around, but give it a go.

Well you missed out on one experience in place of another. You now know what it feels like not to go after what you desire.

thank you


Thank you. She's not speaking to me. I think it's all awkward now. I thought we'd still be friends but I feel **** now.

As much as I hate it, I said no the love of my life. She is completely different than me. We are the polar opposites. I am quiet, introvert, staying in all the time kind of guy but she is outgoing, always partying type of girl. I love her and I think she likes me as well, but I don't think she'd be happy with me. So did I do the right thing?

Just apologise maybe send her a card and a small bunch of flowers.

If shes the love of your life or rather you like her, then she would be worth the effort.

He has no reason to apologise in my opinion, he said no she feels rejected and is licking her wounds, hopefully in time she will come around if she cares about their friendship.

As much as I hate it, I said no the love of my life. She is completely different than me. We are the polar opposites. I am quiet, introvert, staying in all the time kind of guy but she is outgoing, always partying type of girl. I love her and I think she likes me as well, but I don't think she'd be happy with me. So did I do the right thing?