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At least you won't have to travel far to hook up?
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It doesn't matter if you're on tinder, who in the world cares. If this is serious, then you need to talk with your mother. God, I hope she's financially independent. The way I see it, your parents' marriage is already over. Your father clearly doesn't want to be with your mother and the deception is simply unfair on her.
Original post by Pinkberry_y
What do I do? I'm so embarrassed I can't even face him right now. He's downstairs right now


How many years have they been together, do you really want to wreck the whole thing, because of this one slip up?
If it's on an android, swipe right (not on tindr ._.) on the play store app, and on the apps & games section, there'll be an 'all apps' section, which shows whatever apps you've ever tried to download; but the problem is that the apps that are not currently installed can be deleted from the list.
@pinkberry_y

Sorry, but some of the advice here is just insane.

First - You've seen a profile on Tinder. That's it. You don't know for sure that he has seen yours.

Second - you have a bunch of people here advising you to take the first active steps in potentially breaking up your family. Some people are saying stuff like "it's over already" etc. That's a bunch of crap. They don't know that. No-one knows that.

Keep quiet and don't worry about it. Maybe you'll find out something more in the future - maybe not. All I would say is, don't listen to people on here with nothing at stake, advising you to throw a grenade on your family.
I swear you're a GCSE student?


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Original post by DamnDaniel2
I swear you're a GCSE student?


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Is he how do you know?
Original post by Popsiclez
Is he how do you know?


I don't know if he/she really is but I THINK I saw pinkberry on GCSE threads posting their results.


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Original post by 04MR17
The Community Team. The fascists of TSR. The big big cheeses. They are responsible for dealing with problem users on TSR. They are the ones who ban users, remove bad posts etc. They can also do a quick IP check to see if pinkberry here has had another account with TSR. Which is the case here. Some groups on TSR (like the political parties) have a no-dupe policy. Also, there are some Previously banned users (PBUs) that like to return to TSR through fake accounts. CT specialises in removing them.


Sounds like a covert operation.
Original post by john2054
Don't tell your dad about it. Don't you have any close friends, or siblings, then maybe tell them both together. Your dad will probably deny the whole thing, but if you want to go through with this, it is probably best to get it out in the open.

That being said, he was probably just looking for some fun on the side, and i wouldn't get to worried about it. The guage of a marriage is less the fidelity of both parties, so much as the obstacles they are able to traverse, i would argue. Good luck! x


Original post by john2054
How many years have they been together, do you really want to wreck the whole thing, because of this one slip up?


I am an only child, so don't have any siblings to talk to :/ wish I did though it would make this easier. I'm so torn, people on here are making me question my judgement, the good side of me wants to think he hasn't actually done anything and has just made a tinder account and that's it. My parents have been married for 27 years, surely their marriage can't be that bad if they've lasted this long? But thanks anyway John :smile:
Original post by DamnDaniel2
I swear you're a GCSE student?


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Wrong person, I'm going into second year of uni. However I have answered on GCSE threads in the past if someone needed advice on GCSEs/ their results
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Original post by 04MR17
The possibility exists that Pinkberry here is telling the truth. However, because they are a dupe, I am more than tempted to accuse them of making this up. Others have commented on how this thread "just doesn't seem right" (see page 3) and I support that view unless I am convinced otherwise.


It seems like one of those stories you'd tell for attention. I didnt believe it was real and I'm glad someone else is agreeing with this. However, if I am wrong....I accept this and apologise. I say this because there is a 90% chance of me not being wrong
Original post by Anonymous
It seems like one of those stories you'd tell for attention. I didnt believe it was real and I'm glad someone else is agreeing with this. However, if I am wrong....I accept this and apologise. I say this because there is a 90% chance of me not being wrong


I feel as though this isn't authentic too it also doesn't help the OP completely blanking all of our replies questioning that, making me feel as though we're right.
Original post by Popsiclez
I feel as though this isn't authentic too it also doesn't help the OP completely blanking all of our replies questioning that, making me feel as though we're right.


Yep and when she replies its always dogding the actual question.
Lol!
Original post by Pinkberry_y
What do I do? I'm so embarrassed I can't even face him right now. He's downstairs right now


So does that mean ur dad has tinder too??? Freaky family lol
Original post by john2054
How many years have they been together, do you really want to wreck the whole thing, because of this one slip up?


John are you mad at me lol
Original post by Pinkberry_y
That's the thing I don't want to tell my mum he's on there because then she'll find out I'm on there and have a fit. She thinks it's dangerous to be talking to randomers on a dating app and that they'll come and find me and rape me. She's so paranoid about online stuff it's actually really bad


Just say your friend found it.
Original post by Anonymous
It seems like one of those stories you'd tell for attention. I didnt believe it was real and I'm glad someone else is agreeing with this. However, if I am wrong....I accept this and apologise. I say this because there is a 90% chance of me not being wrong


Original post by Popsiclez
I feel as though this isn't authentic too it also doesn't help the OP completely blanking all of our replies questioning that, making me feel as though we're right.


Original post by Anonymous
Yep and when she replies its always dogding the actual question.


The reason why I 'blanked' your replies is because I didn't have anything to prove to you or have to explain myself to people I've never met before who think I'm taking the p*** here. I posted here for advice as I didn't know who else to talk about this to, as I said before. I don't feel comfortable talking about this to my friends irl and I'm an only child so don't have siblings I can share the problem with
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Original post by 0to100
John are you mad at me lol


No, why should i be??
Honestly, I read your dad is crap with technology that he asks you how to that on his iPhone, if that's the case then most probably he didn't install Tinder in his phone, so there's two possiblities, either someone is using your dad's pictures or your dad is maybe using it on his computer and a friend may helped him to create the whole account.
There's many other possibilities, he's maybe stalking your page to see what his daughter is up to since you're the only child and he's being overly protective or he wants to cheat on your mother

If I were in your shoes, I would wait, see what happens next, watch his behaviour with your mom, did he generally become happier, if you notice he's cheating on your mom, you can either save the marriage and not tell although i think your mom will eventually find out, or tell your mom.

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