A lot of people are going to be even more pissed that you don't want a job yet but i don't care because i don't really want to work either but that's because i've had lots of jobs before but i decided i would do what i always wanted to do which is go back to college to do a fun course studying music. I did not want to do a course that will require me to do lots of studying i just wanted something fun to learn
Anyway i think your lucky you have a partner as most people don't or will never be lucky enough to achieve that. I think some people are jealous and also when your married your supposed to share everything so theres nothing wrong with your wife buying you things or paying some bills as you do the same for her and just because someone has children does'nt mean you can't treat yourself every now and again and you still treat your child by buying them things they like.
Some people don't have nice partners that would buy them a car or laptop so that is really nice and your wife knows if you had lots of money you will look after her as it works both ways that you do this for each other when your in a relationship and if you did get a laptop for yourself she can use it too
If you look up college courses you can do from home they give you a free laptop. I was going to do that 2 years ago just for the laptop but i'd rather be around other people in a college.
I was going to buy a second hand laptop in cash converters for £189 but by the time i waited too long to put a deposit on it someone else had bought it but it's probably better to buy a brand new one and a Tablet works just as good as a laptop
Working from home or doing paid surveys online all seem to be cons or i would be doing that to make extra money
You can make money doing things like film extra work, commercials, etc even your wife and child can do it in their spare time
www.Star Now
www.Capital Casting
Star now tells people about auditions for films, tv, maybe even Eastenders and other soaps, going on that programme Coach Trip for free holidays, etc
It's really interesting even if you did not actually take part in anything
If i had children i would take them to auditions for acting, commercials, modelling, etc so they can make money for themselves and help the family
My sisters daughter had a non speaking part in Marleys ghost but the reason they gave her a non speaking part was so they did not have to pay her much
But my sister got her daughter an agent but then stopped paying because it was costing a lot so it's cheaper just to sign up with film extra companies like Star Now online and Capital Casting are a film/acting agency but they don't charge people to find out where all the auditions are or to send them to auditions and anyone young or old can join it. But they do ask you to get professional pictures or if you don't have any they will do it for you to put on the internet so the clients can see them and choose who they want for auditions/ commercials, etc