Did you get pregnant intentionally? Or did you not use contraception....?
If yes: how do you feel knowing that you've just wasted your life?
Was lazy and naive with contraception. Used it sometimes, didn't use it a lot of times and didn't get pregnant at first so we thought that him pulling out was working.
I don't believe I've wasted my life, I have a great support system
Was lazy and naive with contraception. Used it sometimes, didn't use it a lot of times and didn't get pregnant at first so we thought that him pulling out was working.
I don't believe I've wasted my life, I have a great support system
So what are you going to do after you give birth? Go to uni...work...?
Congrats! Now are you going to assume responsibility for your actions and raise the child well; sacrificing much of your time and energy during the next 18 years into doing so? Is the father ready to do the same?
How do you feel knowing that, without a degree to get a high-paying job, you may struggle to fully support your child?
(I'm not trying to attack your choice, because it is your choice at the end of the day, but I just can't help but feel that the child is going to suffer because you had it so young. I mean, you're barely old enough to support yourself, and now a child? How are you going to buy them things? How are you going to bring in money for food and rent, and care for it at the same time? I just think your decision is a bit naive, that's all).
On a slightly lighter note, what do you plan to name him/her?
Did you get pregnant intentionally? Or did you not use contraception....?
If yes: how do you feel knowing that you've just wasted your life?
Stupid comment. Not everyone has the same plans for their life as you do. Even if this was an accident it's not necessarily a bad thing. I'm sure the baby will have a loving family and grow up just fine, especially since she's expressed she has a good support system.