I was in a similar position to you just last year.
a girl I really loved cheated on me, and I kept on coming back to her. but after I had some RESPECT for MYSELF, I realised what I'm doing is ****ing stupid. So I stopped giving her the attention she didn't deserve. and guess what? she started coming back to me. I used to write paragraphs to this girl telling her I want her back. she used to reply to them with one word, lol. I came to the conclusion that people want things they can't have, so I played as if I don't want her anymore, and she ended up wanting me. Playing this came was a blessing in disguise, as when I was hung up over her, I didn't let another girl closer to me. however, after losing feelings for her, I was able to allow one of the most amazing girls I have ever met get closer to me. and now we are currently happy in a relationship.
He seems like a ****boy. I promise you. would you want a guy who has no respect for his own girl to be the role model of your future children? lemme answer that for you, lol. HELL NO.
I know it will hurt for a while, but once you've accepted the fact that he no longer is happy with you, I promise you. it'll be easier for you to move on.
don't bother popping up to him. focus on yourself, and he'll wonder "how comes she hasn't messaged me in a while?" he'll start to become more and more curious. he'll end up missing the attention.
guys like attention just as much as girls do.
I'm sorry you're going through a tough time, but its all a part of life's process in turning into a stronger version of yourself.
btw if you ever decide you want to get back with him. ask yourself one thing. "do you respect yourself?" if you're going back to a guy like that. then I'm afraid to say you don't really have any self respect and how are you gonna have other people respect you if you don't respect yourself first. this was one of the things I realised from my breakup last year. (which took a year for me to get over)
take it easy.
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