ive been with this number of boys- is that bad?

do you usually swallow

Please don't get me wrong - I'm not judging you.

What's done is done and nothing will change that.

The power is with you and you alone because only you can break the cycle.

Avoid alcohol (which I somehow suspect is involved).

Wait until you are in a stable relationship and understand the other persons intent and with a decent reciprocating guy before progressing to a physical relationship. A good way of finding out about the other person first is spending time with them over several weeks/months ( I know others will say get real but hey, it's worked for me) and making your own decisions about their values and they way they behave/treat other people especially towards women. As the saying goes, people are defined by the company they keep.

Time heals and as you mature, you can put this down to immaturity/naivety and move on. There is no need to disclose your history to anyone. Indeed, decent, assured and confident guy's have no need to even ask.

Best wishes, chin up and put this behind you. You can do it.

depends how much im attracted to the guy

ive slept with zero guys but ive sucked off like 13 different guys and kissed like over 20. is that bad. my age is 19

hows about you make that 14, whats your phone number

Do you honestly enjoy sucking guys that much? You don't even get an orgasm.

Also, no, I don't really consider it bad. I've just never heard of someone having so much oral sex without penetrative.

ik i dont get pleasure but i like pleasuring guys. im not ready to lose my virginity yet, i may be loose when it comes to sucking but not with sex

ive slept with zero guys but ive sucked off like 13 different guys and kissed like over 20. is that bad. my age is 19

Hey bud
I've slept with over 20 guys, sucked off 29 and kissed... god can't even count them. I'm 20. Don't let anyone get you down about it because most people can't even get with 1 person.