Will everyone be having sex at uni?

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Reply 40

username2647239

Original post by Gnatt27

Even if that guy is shy when talking to girls and only average looking?

the best way to get a girl is through banter. trust me. girls love banter

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Reply 41

BigMan Ting

Original post by abc:)

Not EVERYONE will be having sex, but uni is one of the most promiscuous places EVER. Like it's socially acceptable to sleep around as much as you want basically, so a lot of people take advantage of this, plus the fact that you're away from your parents for the first time so you suddenly control who comes back to your place.

Also though there will be people who get into relationships, or already have relationships, or just aren't interested in sex.

Be careful who you choose to go home with though. I had a bad experience with a stranger. After that I only got with people from my own uni, who I at least know through somebody else.

- What happened lol? if you dont midn me asking, you can tell me via pm

Reply 42

Gnatt27

But I'm not a bantersaurusrex

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Reply 43

Gnatt27

Yeah but how ? Just hope that there is a girl in my flat or something?

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Reply 44

abc:)

Original post by BigMan Ting

- What happened lol? if you dont midn me asking, you can tell me via pm

He was just a very horrible person!! I swear he had some mental health issues or something and I just didn't feel very safe! I know it sounds funny and looking back it's not like I'm traumatised or anything but it is pretty serious when you think about it, especially for girls, you're going back to drunk guys' houses who you don't know at all. And everyone does it, but that experience just made me a bit more cautious :s-smilie:

Reply 45

abc:)

Original post by Gnatt27

Yeah but how ? Just hope that there is a girl in my flat or something?

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Noooooooooooooooooooooo! Don't **** where you eat. Make friends with the people in your flat. Maybe you will meet girls through them. But don't sleep with flatmates!

Reply 46

Gnatt27

Why not? Where do you do it then? Like what place if not the flat?

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Reply 47

BigMan Ting

Original post by Gnatt27

Why not? Where do you do it then? Like what place if not the flat?

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lol bad idea never the flatmates, you are gonna see them everyday most likely 24 hrs and you are living with them for a year. Not worth it if you have a fall out as it makes things bare awkward.

try people around the uni, at the freshers events or even meeting them through friends at uni

Reply 48

Unistudent77

[QUOTE=MagnumPhoenix;67569952]How about Netflix and Weed and Chill? 😂😏

Can recommend.
If she's keen for that, she's a keeper!

All about your inner confidence mate. I was awkward in first year around girls, i just grew in confidence and was normal. People liked me and from then on you get more and more confident/relaxed.

Don't see it as a big deal.
Just know what you're doing before you have sex is my main advice.

Reply 49

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Most people will because it's around the time people move out and thus have a little more privacy than at their parents house and appearances/cliques/etc mean significantly less than they did in school. Plus of course it's just that time where everyone's curiosity eventually gets the better of them if they weren't already sexually active! Some people even meet their life partners at that age, etc.*

* I got third year entry to uni and was in an LDR the full time I was studying there, so I didn't. But I did sleep with a couple guys during the HND preceding that relationship/uni entry. :tongue:

Reply 50

MagnumPhoenix

Original post by abc:)

Noooooooooooooooooooooo! Don't **** where you eat. Make friends with the people in your flat. Maybe you will meet girls through them. But don't sleep with flatmates!

He's right. If you **** your housemates it can make things reaaaally awks, especially if one of you becomes more attached or fall out.... It just causes drama.

You could potentially find a girl in your block... But it's best to find someone in a different block. Also: don't **** anyone in your class either.

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Reply 51

Unistudent77

Don't f*** flatmates (but if needs must...)

Don't try and be the soul of the party.

My advice would be to make friends. From there you go to more parties and such like.

Be confident, i often use innuendo and cheek when chatting to girls but i try and get them to chat about themselves and then they'll ask me.
I have some interesting hobbies, i've been to interesting places but i try and (at least pretend) to listen to what she is saying

Reply 52

Siberiaan

Original post by Alexion

Alexion has a feeling he may be on the first weekend :innocent:

I've taught you well :smile:

Reply 53

SaucissonSecCy

I got offered some experience with older women but I never had girlfriends or sex at uni.

I am anti-social though.

Reply 54

Gnatt27

Okay the gist f what I'm getting is not to **** flatmates. But where do you ****? As I what place?

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Reply 55

Gnatt27

I m not really anti social as in I do try a bit to talk but especially when I do with girls I just get really tenseand the words don't come out right making me seem like a weirdo

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Reply 56

Fullofsurprises

Original post by the bear

these Girton first years are showing off their state of the art marital aids ...

Lol, it looks like some kind of Victorian KKK meeting, about to have a hangin'.

Reply 57

Fullofsurprises

Original post by MagnumPhoenix

UCAS. There's a whole sub section for those applying specifically to Uni orgies. Sign up only takes 5 minutes and costs £4.99.

I think that's just for the 1-day orgy. The full week is £11.99.

Reply 58

sadixx

Original post by WoodyMKC

I didn't go to uni, but honestly... at the age that I would have been going to uni is when I started to play the field, sexually. I only went pulling at the weekends and always slept at their house because my mum was always in at mine, but ****... if I had my own room at uni I'd ideally have been bringing a girl back nearly every night.

player ....

Reply 59

ChaoticButterfly

I certainly didn't :mad:

Original post by Little Popcorns

Loads of the horny little beggars.

Doesn't mean you have to jump on that infested bandwagon and it's okay to go out and have a good night out without 'pulling' some random snotty youth...