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Original post by SirKyrgystan
It seriously disturbs me that we are still having this discussion in the 21st century. Where do we draw the line if we start forcing women into parenthood because it offends our sensibilities? How about women start forcing absentee fathers into marriage & living with the child until 18? because y'know, it's immoral and un-christian to abandon a family like that without trying to make it work, men can make a stupid selfish decision and ruin the future of that poor child, think of that child's potential to cure cancer, all gone to waste because the dad wasn't around. (and yes I am reversing a common argument anti-abortionists hold)


Finally, someone who says it all!!!

Abortion is a personal issue- just because one woman's actions offend a certain amount of the population it doesn't mean that we should make it illegal.
Original post by emi.hopkins


I'm not using the 'rare cases', bringing up any child is hard no matter who you are, ask your mother.


You were talking about people dropping out of school/uni and quitting a job, those are rare cases.

Original post by emi.hopkins
Of course money is a type of support- financial support, but if a woman (in a land where abortion is illegal) was forced to bring up a child they never wanted, a man should be made to bring it up to?? It only makes sense! Considering they played equal parts in creating the child.


I could so easily rephrase that:

'If a woman can authorise an abortion surely a man should too? It only makes sense! Considering they played equal parts in creating the child.'

Original post by emi.hopkins
And regarding contraception, the only way to 100% prevent pregnancy, is to not have sex. So unless everyone stopped having sex, then there would always be risk to pregnancy, and always a few who get pregnant who didn't want to, and therefore always people who because of their circumstances, would like or need an abortion?

What about rape?


Yes contraception does fail from time to time but it's incredibly rare, particularly if you used more than one.




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Original post by SirKyrgystan
It seriously disturbs me that we are still having this discussion in the 21st century. Where do we draw the line if we start forcing women into parenthood because it offends our sensibilities? How about women start forcing absentee fathers into marriage & living with the child until 18? because y'know, it's immoral and un-christian to abandon a family like that without trying to make it work, men can make a stupid selfish decision and ruin the future of that poor child, think of that child's potential to cure cancer, all gone to waste because the dad wasn't around. (and yes I am reversing a common argument anti-abortionists hold)


Your logic makes no sense because you're skipping a step. You talk about forcing absentee fathers to stay around but if you want to keep it Christian then people shouldn't be having sex out of wedlock. If a dad to be says that he's leaving and the mother keeps the baby anyway she is solely responsible for any negative consequences the child faces.


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Original post by Underscore__
Your logic makes no sense because you're skipping a step. You talk about forcing absentee fathers to stay around but if you want to keep it Christian then people shouldn't be having sex out of wedlock. If a dad to be says that he's leaving and the mother keeps the baby anyway she is solely responsible for any negative consequences the child faces.


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I'd say you're the one skipping a step, as you're implying a father cannot leave if in wedlock. I think the millions of divorced and separate partners around the globe would disagree strongly with that logic. Besides, ignoring the fact that when a father leaves, the potential life and achievements of the kid disappear too as a result of the lost financial and parental contributions, is the same as disregarding the potential life and achievements of a fetus. Yet like I said, we do not force fathers to remain in the family home, and we sure as hell do not force women into having a child they do not want.
Original post by emi.hopkins
I'm not talking about now, because women have the choice to abort now, I'm talking about if they didn't have that choice.

I'm not using the 'rare cases', bringing up any child is hard no matter who you are, ask your mother.

Of course money is a type of support- financial support, but if a woman (in a land where abortion is illegal) was forced to bring up a child they never wanted, a man should be made to bring it up to?? It only makes sense! Considering they played equal parts in creating the child.

And regarding contraception, the only way to 100% prevent pregnancy, is to not have sex. So unless everyone stopped having sex, then there would always be risk to pregnancy, and always a few who get pregnant who didn't want to, and therefore always people who because of their circumstances, would like or need an abortion?

What about rape?

correct. no sex means no pregnancy. responsiblility falls on two involved. in a world where abortion is illegal society would need to follow and support a responsible life style not today's loose goose which has also given rise to high percent of population having std.

agree support needs to be had between both parents, but no woman would be forced to "bring up" a child since there is adoption. and in future, if we keep to the pro life frame of things, scienctific study may advance to limit length of time for pregnancy w/o killing a child.

like today it is unfavorable to have parents put little to no effort in parenting.
Original post by Underscore__
Your logic makes no sense because you're skipping a step. You talk about forcing absentee fathers to stay around but if you want to keep it Christian then people shouldn't be having sex out of wedlock. If a dad to be says that he's leaving and the mother keeps the baby anyway she is solely responsible for any negative consequences the child faces.
may you describe your sentence meaning? what is meant by responsible?
I don't really believe in abortion. It doesn't make sense to me why a pregnant woman would want to kill a healthy unborn child. The unborn child doesn't even have a say whether to live or die. Also there also other options other than abortion. If you don;t want to raise the child who is your own flesh and blood, place the child on adoption for someone else to take responsibility. There are couples who can't get pregnant and would appreciate young child to have as their own.

There are always other options than abortion.

Its sounds so irresponsible to get pregnant and then request an abortion when the unborn child doesn't even have to be raised by the mother.
I think its cool that through sex life can be born but then you want to kill life because you don't want "it" like the the unborn child doesn't share your DNA and didn't come from you? (Mother)

So the unborn baby is just an "it"? Isn't "it" human? Didn't we all start as "it"?
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Original post by SmileyVibe
I don't really believe in abortion. It doesn't make sense to me why a pregnant woman would want to kill a healthy unborn child.

Why are you assuming they are healthy?
Original post by SmileyVibe

The unborn child doesn't even have a say whether to live or die.


If the child did have a choice, is it really going to choose to die?
Original post by SmileyVibe

Also there also other options other than abortion. If you don;t want to raise the child who is your own flesh and blood, place the child on adoption for someone else to take responsibility. There are couples who can't get pregnant and would appreciate young child to have as their own.



What if giving birth presents an extreme danger to mother and/or child? And saturate social services even more? There are plenty of children out there waiting to be adopted. There's no shortage of children for infertile couples.

Original post by SmileyVibe

Its sounds so irresponsible to get pregnant and then request an abortion when the unborn child doesn't even have to be raised by the mother.
I think its cool that through sex life can be born but then you want to kill life because you don't want "it" like the the unborn child doesn't share your DNA and didn't come from you? (Mother)

So the unborn baby is just an "it"? Isn't "it" human? Didn't we all start as "it"?

Nobody 'wants' to kill an unborn child as such, the decision isn't often taken lightly. Who cares what it 'sounds' or 'seems' like.
Original post by hezzlington
Why are you assuming they are healthy?
I like to believe majority are healthy but I don't memorize the statistics. Healthy as in no lethal diseases. Workers/doctors usually can predict whether the baby will be healthy or not. Pregnant women do abort healthy unborn children sometimes. Not every unborn child is unhealthy so I can assume an unborn child is/can be healthy if you get what I'm sayin.
If the child did have a choice, is it really going to choose to die?

Exactly? Are we on the same page or something? :s-smilie: I think it is a sad way for an unborn child to go. Forming/ed in the mother's womb and then to be ripped apart at the mother's request.


What if giving birth presents an extreme danger to mother and/or child? And saturate social services even more? There are plenty of children out there waiting to be adopted. There's no shortage of children for infertile couples.

I don't know. Are you implying that majority of pregnancies are dangerous?My point is life is precious.

Nobody 'wants' to kill an unborn child as such, the decision isn't often taken lightly. Who cares what it 'sounds' or 'seems' like.


I said that I think it sounds irresponsible to request an abortion based on wants? Obviously I care, lol I am the "who" so who cares, cares.
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Original post by SmileyVibe
It doesn't make sense to me why a pregnant woman would want to kill a healthy unborn child.


To save her own life, perhaps?

Original post by SmileyVibe

There are always other options than abortion.


Options like dying.
Original post by Good bloke
To save her own life, perhaps?



Options like dying.


options like modern medicine that can help prevent two deaths. otherwise, the most common abortions are based on wants not life or death. even a small population that share a risk does not justify the whole population getting an abortion just because they think they are being inconvenienced.
Original post by da_nolo
options like modern medicine that can help prevent two deaths.


Don't hide behind glib generalisations. The situation I mentioned is one where two doctors believe the mother is likely to die if she goes through with the pregnancy and she can only be certainly saved if she undergoes an abortion. Now, how can modern medicine save her without an abortion, bearing in mind the doctors concerned are practising modern medicine and are not witch doctors?
Original post by hezzlington
Why are you assuming they are healthy?

If the child did have a choice, is it really going to choose to die?


What if giving birth presents an extreme danger to mother and/or child? And saturate social services even more? There are plenty of children out there waiting to be adopted. There's no shortage of children for infertile couples.


Nobody 'wants' to kill an unborn child as such, the decision isn't often taken lightly. Who cares what it 'sounds' or 'seems' like.
those who make money from abortions (clinics, politicians, etc. ) have been trying to convince the population that getting an abortion is the easiest decision ever. no physical or mental threats to woman health. nothing to cry about or worry.

but thousands cry each year as they realize their mistake - these women all voice their worries and say "they had no choice."

there goes the whole pro choice claim. one big lie. no one cares about the woman after an abortion - that's why some clinics don't have therapists to reference.

I haven't been to or looked at all clinics mind you, so I am not able to say all. but I doubt that connection is there.

anyone want to be pro choice? then abortion clinics should offer non-abortion references for women who don't know.
Original post by hezzlington
Why are you assuming they are healthy? .
why assume they are not?

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If the child did have a choice, is it really going to choose to die? .
that's the point right? why abortion is a lie. no choice for all parties involved.


What if giving birth presents an extreme danger to mother and/or child? And saturate social services even more? There are plenty of children out there waiting to be adopted. There's no shortage of children for infertile couples.
so are you to kill the kids in social service?

one lie after another. social services can be reformed to help all. otherwise I known several men who grew up in local boys home who had not the chance to know parents while others could not be kept by their parents.

no life is easy and that's no excuse to kill. otherwise let's bring back totalitarian govt. to choose when we may live or die. surely you'd trust them to say when you are wanted or a health risk to others.
Original post by SirKyrgystan
I'd say you're the one skipping a step, as you're implying a father cannot leave if in wedlock. I think the millions of divorced and separate partners around the globe would disagree strongly with that logic. Besides, ignoring the fact that when a father leaves, the potential life and achievements of the kid disappear too as a result of the lost financial and parental contributions, is the same as disregarding the potential life and achievements of a fetus. Yet like I said, we do not force fathers to remain in the family home, and we sure as hell do not force women into having a child they do not want.


Well if we're keeping it Christian then no, a father can't leave in wedlock. The simple fact is, post sex men are powerless and can't eradicate their mistake, women can and that's wrong


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Original post by 999tigger
Nope disagree. Womans body and her choice, because she and the family have to raise it and be responsible for its lifetime.
Making it illegal would just bring more children into the world that arent wanted or increase backstreet abortions or force people to have them in extreme circumsatnces such as the child having serious medical conditions or being the result of things like rape.

I cant see that its got anything to do with being socialist.

Obviously the state draws the line at so many weeks for where it does become illegal. Im 100% for a womans right to choose before that date.


Absolutely agree with you there. Abortion should still be an option for women who are not financially or emotionally stable to look after a child. If abortion is made illegal then imagine all the detrimental side effects of it: a woman who was raped may not look after the child with all her love and may not provide an appropriate living environment for the child- this has a huge impact on the child life. If we decide to ban abortion it could affect the lives of many children who may not have the lives they deserve. However, I still feel the there should be limits on when abortion can be allowed- I think you can only abort before 22 weeks in the UK...

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Original post by BunnyMidnight
Women have a right to use their body the way they want to, if they want to have sex a lot fine, if they want to wear what every fine. The same goes for men, as long as it's not offensive it doesn't really matter, it doesn't affect you. If they want to be fit or fat who fudging cares, it's not you!!!!!
Everyone should be able to wear whatever they want, even if some people find it offensive.
Original post by Abstract_Prism
I just can't get behind the 'it's her body' argument. Because it's not really her body, is it? It's another body within her body. Besides, basing the argument on that results in fallacies. Why is abortion not ok beyond X week in that case? It's still 'her body'. It doesn't spawn its own existence spontaneously beyond a certain week. It doesn't make sense why abortion shouldn't be legal all throughout the pregnancy if you're using the 'it's her body' argument.I'm not saying that abortion is wrong. I'm saying that this argument is a bad one.
The reason it ends at 24 weeks is because it is no longer parasitic to the mother, and could in rare cases survive if it was to be born so prematurely.
Original post by NUSTweb
It's about what is made lawful by God and what is made unlawful by God...Killing children is made unlawful...while animals were made for human use....there are things (harmful) which He forbade and the good things he allowed.... And idk much of fetus but being a human I can clearly understand that abortion is liking killing a kid....and secondly that kid is part of mother..... Like here in Pakistan..kids seats are charged no-where until they sit in lap of their mothers.....so seat and passport issue depends on both space and understanding.... And plants and certain animals are made lawful to eat while some animals aren't..... and a life is a life...this is your materialistic approach by which million were killed and will be killed.... Don't you read what God said in Quran? ''Every soul will taste death. And We test you with evil and with good as trial; and to Us you will be returned. ''
What is says in the Quran is irrelevant to non-muslims. To make it illegal based on religion enforces your religious principles on the rest of the population. No one should be forced into parenthood just because of someone else's religious beliefs. If the person who gets pregnant is religious, then she can decide to not get an abortion if she would like.
Original post by Underscore__
The difference there is people usually end up pregnant as a result of choices they've made so it's far more reasonable to say that you have a responsibility to a 'life' you've created rather than one you haven't.There were still back alley abortion clinics before abortion was made legal but the argument that people will find away is ridiculous. People find away to murder and rape each other so shall we legalise that as well?
Comparing murder to abortion is extremely hyperbolic. Abortion is removing a parasitic fetus, that can't think, talk, or breathe, from the mothers body. Murder is killing another fully developed human being. The difference is that fetus' don't have any rights. and fully developed humans do. Killing a fetus would be comparable to killing a dog. They have the same amount of rights.
Original post by Shipreck
Everyone should be able to wear whatever they want, even if some people find it offensive.


No not really, think about it would it be acceptable if someone wore a racist t-shirt or a sexist one just because they are allowed too. No, not really as that would hurt, offend and insult many. It is the reason why I said As long as it's not hurting anyone.
It is very similar to saying that you can punch someone, regardless or say something racist or insulting regardless. I'm not talking about petty stuff like having the middle finger on a t-shirt, I'm talking about something like a money on a t-shirt eating bananas and it says the n-word across it.
Original post by BunnyMidnight
No not really, think about it would it be acceptable if someone wore a racist t-shirt or a sexist one just because they are allowed too. No, not really as that would hurt, offend and insult many. It is the reason why I said As long as it's not hurting anyone.
It is very similar to saying that you can punch someone, regardless or say something racist or insulting regardless. I'm not talking about petty stuff like having the middle finger on a t-shirt, I'm talking about something like a money on a t-shirt eating bananas and it says the n-word across it.


I think people should be allowed to be racist, sexist, homophobic, and any other label people get from what they say. I don't have to agree with someone to let them have the right to freedom of expression. The only time someone's expression should be limited is if they are threatening. There are inherent differences between punching someone and saying something offensive about a group that they are a part of. The main one being that words don't physically hurt.
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