so idk what exactly we are but we both made it clear a month ago that we really like each other, however as soon as I started falling for this guy he's got extremely lazy with his replies and apparently hates texting (which never seemed to be a problem till now) he will leave me on read for days sometimes and I know he's online, whenever he texts me back or calls (which I initiate nowadays) its seems so forced and uninterested. I've made it clear before that he's not making as much effort and that it pisses me off that he blue ticks me: his reasons were that he's lazy, cba to text and busy. When I was on call with him the other day I was thinking about this and it was apparent to him that I was being distant, to this he messaged after the call "stop being distant" so it gives me some hope that he still has feeling and still cares. Or when I talk about other guys he gets extremely jealous. However I don't feel he's making any effort. What should I do? Should I do what he's doing to me?