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Do you have any relationship regrets?

These can be with a crush/ a boyfriend/ girlfriend/ anything really.
I'll start of first, there was this guy who liked me but I wrote him off so quickly based on what I THOUGHT he was like and didn't give him a chance, instead judging him. I the. found out his family are super rich, he owns a boat, his family own a villa in Cassis and he's actually a lovely human being. But too late for me now.

Anyone else have any regrets. We can all weep together lol

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This is completely normal. You're just a g̶o̶l̶d̶d̶i̶g̶g̶e̶r̶ thoughtful person.
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Original post by Orbital_Rising
This is completely normal. You're just a g̶o̶l̶d̶d̶i̶g̶g̶e̶r̶ thoughtful person.


I'm no gold digger lol
Original post by Anonymous
I'm no gold digger lol


If that was the case why did you mention that the guy had a villa and a boat in the first place?
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Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
If that was the case why did you mention that the guy had a villa and a boat in the first place?


Well okay those things also made me feel as if I have lost the potential to live in luxury if I were with him, but I did also say he was lovely
Original post by Anonymous
Well okay those things also made me feel as if I have lost the potential to live in luxury if I were with him, but I did also say he was lovely


What sticks out the most for me personally is that you mentioned how rich he was first and THEN you mentioned how lovely he was. It speaks volumes of what you look for in a guy.
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Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
What sticks out the most for me personally is that you mentioned how rich he was first and THEN you mentioned how lovely he was. It speaks volumes of what you look for in a guy.


Well anyway it does still feel like something really good slipped between my fingers and what are ur relationship regrets mrssheldoncooper
Original post by Anonymous
Well anyway it does still feel like something really good slipped between my fingers and what are ur relationship regrets mrssheldoncooper


Well they certainly don't involve letting a rich kid slip through my fingers :wink:
I regret not being able to win over any of the 8 girls i tried to get with :frown:
Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
If that was the case why did you mention that the guy had a villa and a boat in the first place?


Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
What sticks out the most for me personally is that you mentioned how rich he was first and THEN you mentioned how lovely he was. It speaks volumes of what you look for in a guy.


^^^ I agree with all of this.
I regret taking my partner for granted. We are still together and doing fine and after all these years we have been together, I suppose it's a little natural to take each other for granted at times but I don't like it. I take a lot out on him over things that's not his fault as well at times which I'm not proud of.

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Now I ain't sayin she a gold digger...

Eh, my biggest regret would be not calling him out on his crap.
Didn't try hard enough to sort out my mental health problems on my own and it was draining for her. Needed to get a life and hang out with other people more so we could have more alone times lol.
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I don't have a regret, as of yet, Im just not sure I'm going to do the right thing with this guy I'm talking to..
saying yes to things i wasn't okay with
Had a few oppertunities for a first kiss which I now regret not taking
Saying yes to something my gut told me not to say yes to. Because I knew what would happen, and it happened :frown:

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Had a few oppertunities for a first kiss which I now regret not taking


That reminds me of another thing I regret. My first kiss was a drunken one with this German guy whilst in my friends kitchen. Then I refused to sleep with him and later on he ended up kissing one of my friends. You always remember your first kiss
Original post by Anonymous
That reminds me of another thing I regret. My first kiss was a drunken one with this German guy whilst in my friends kitchen. Then I refused to sleep with him and later on he ended up kissing one of my friends. You always remember your first kiss


don't beat yourself up so much about it
firsts are almost never good
Caring too much before getting dumped.

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