I sent a guy a message and he unfriended me.

lol.
here's what happened.

I used to fancy this guy and my friend thought it would be ****ing funny if I told him I still liked him just to see what he said.

At this point, I didn't care, I mean when you like someone you're really conscious of what they say but I wasn't feeling nervous or anything cause I don't have feelings for him anymore.

anyway I saw him at his work and told him and then just walked away he was probably like errr and just forgot about it. Later on I was gonna say it was just a prank my friend told me to do albeit not a very good one but then I was convinced not to. I just say sorry about that. He was like its fine. Then I messaged him and said I'd suck his d**k and he unfriended me lol.

Basically, I don't really care that he unfriended me but I just hope he doesn't show anyone that I know cause they might take it seriously?! If I actually wanted to do that I would never message someone where there's evidence of what I said but you know when you're doing things with friends you don't think very much.

I have read what you've written several times and I still can't work out why you messaged him saying you'd suck his dick. If I were a guy I'd find you very bizarre. In fact I already find you bizarre

Perhaps he thought you were being really immature and making fun of him?

Well at least we know his gay now

btw i love how the title of this thread is all chill
like when you click on it you're thinking oh my what an unreasonable guy all the poor girl did was send him an innocent message
and then you read the description and you realize what this **** is all about

i <3 u

btw i love how the title of this thread is all chill
like when you click on it you're thinking oh my what an unreasonable guy all the poor girl did was send him an innocent message
and then you read the description and you realize what this **** is all about

I'm intrigued by the use of "albeit" in the OP

That's cause I'm actually a chill person

At least it wasn't click bait a title which this thread had a massive potential to make.

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That would make him realllly easily offended lol which isn't hard to imagine but :/

yeah you keep telling yourself that=))
you told a guy you didn't know that you wanted to suck his d*ck
you're anything but chill lol
how would you feel if a man sent you a similar message? wouldn't you think he was a creep?

Lol I'm not gonna tell myself anything

it'd be different if I actually wanted to and just messaged him that

Yh some guys do message **** like that I said on page 1

I did know him but not closely

He seems to have sussed you out though. Whats more puzzling is why you seem surprised about his response.

idk what to tell you girl=)))
even as a joke it's kinda s*itty
if ****ing sean o'pry sent me a message like this right now, i'd still think it's weird

I do know that it's **** lol Im sure I've repeated similar phrasing several times before

Sean o pry is a completely stranger thou, also when you do things as pranks you don't send a "regular message". It's not even classified as a prank tbh it wasn't very well thought out. We were just joking around to see how he'd respond.

ofc messages like that when you actually know someone/have a thing are completely different I don't really know what you're getting at? :/

In the OP I've said I wasn't bothered about his response, my issue was highlighted
I just didn't want him to take it serious & show anyone but after this I think he knows it wasn't so idm

i mentioned him because he's attractive
anyway it's not like he was your bestie or anything.. he was just an acquaintance

Well if he's irritated or bored, then he has a copy now, which he can send around. Perhaps he's not bothered what you think and will find it funny?

So you mean if anyone EVER sent you a message like that you'd be weirded out? Even if you had a thing? ...



True but I'm gonna to not worry myself on the basis that he didn't find it funny (and thus unfriended) I think it's a safe assumption to make lol