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Trouble trusting my boyfriend

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and i'm madly in love with him, for a fairly new relationship we've been through a hell of a lot together! For the first few months of our relationship I had mega trust issues however as the year has passed I've learnt to trust him more. He was out of college for a while but is back. However, he is in a different college than me and the worries are starting to creep back into my head. He has trust issues about me too and although we're open about these things and discuss them and reassure eachother I just can't get rid of this feeling that he flirts with girls in college. He's a very charming person and sometimes I guess that could be seen as flirting. I don't really know what the point of this post was really, I love him more than anything and I want to marry him and he feels the same way but I don't know what to do about these worries :frown:

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dont trust boys they are all horrible
Original post by Anonymous
dont trust boys they are all horrible


I speak on behalf of all men on this earth when I say this: Oi!
lol its good to worry, shows that u care.
showing him u worry shows that you care.
Reply 4
I think you know what to do here, you're just seeking validation from others. If you guys cant trust one another even after discussing your fears with each other, i dont see how you can have a healthy relationship..
Don't forget the worries. Figure out exactly why you fear infidelity. This can be through introspection or through talking it through. It may be due to insecurities in yourself, e.g. you don't feel you're good enough for him or w/e. Figure out what the problem is, be it with yourself or with him, and then ask how to fix it.
Original post by Anonymous
dont trust boys they are all horrible


yeah but they cute sometimes :frown:
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
dont trust boys they are all horrible


Yes, boys are horrible, but men are not.
Original post by UWS
Yes, boys are horrible, but men are not.


Men are pigs. Gentlemen are where it's at. *tip*
Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Men are pigs. Gentlemen are where it's at. *tip*


Pigs know how to eat though
Original post by MagnetoWasRight
Pigs know how to eat though


Anything and everything?
Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Anything and everything?


Especially the pussy
Original post by MagnetoWasRight
Especially the pussy


:eating:
Original post by AlexLawrence1453
:eating:


cover it in sauce first
Reply 14
Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Don't forget the worries. Figure out exactly why you fear infidelity. This can be through introspection or through talking it through. It may be due to insecurities in yourself, e.g. you don't feel you're good enough for him or w/e. Figure out what the problem is, be it with yourself or with him, and then ask how to fix it.


Prsom...you had a good point!!
Original post by MagnetoWasRight
cover it in sauce first


Hope she's packing the secret sauce because I'm not using mine.

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Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Hope she's packing the secret sauce because I'm not using mine.

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If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?
Original post by MagnetoWasRight
If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?


Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30
Original post by MagnetoWasRight
If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?


Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30


omg :rofl:
Officially dead
#ripCheese
Original post by AlexLawrence1453
Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30


Pardon my ignorance, but how does cooking harm your fertility?

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