So I finally met this really nice girl but...

This heading alone, plus the general style, plus the level of content, rather indicate you are a little spectrum and/or over-analysing (we've all been there). Girls like guys who take risks and demonstrate decisiveness/determination

I dunno what to tell you man because she must think your just friends unless you've been getting flirty so if you want to make something out of this you gotta let her know that you like her. Not in a big way like sending an "I love you" message but try and be playful/teasing/flirty and if she responds with a smile then you know it's going somewhere. Also I would avoid messaging altogether and have all of your interactions in person. Your probably not the only guy who messages her so it doesn't make you stand out.

I don't know either of you so all I've got to go off is what you wrote in your post. In my opinion, you should try to become closer friends with her to see if it's going anywhere (i.e. if a relationship is on the cards).

Good luck

This heading alone, plus the general style, plus the level of content, rather indicate you are a little spectrum and/or over-analysing (we've all been there). Girls like guys who take risks and demonstrate decisiveness/determination

I dunno what to tell you man because she must think your just friends unless you've been getting flirty so if you want to make something out of this you gotta let her know that you like her. Not in a big way like sending an "I love you" message but try and be playful/teasing/flirty and if she responds with a smile then you know it's going somewhere. Also I would avoid messaging altogether and have all of your interactions in person. Your probably not the only guy who messages her so it doesn't make you stand out.

I don't know either of you so all I've got to go off is what you wrote in your post. In my opinion, you should try to become closer friends with her to see if it's going anywhere (i.e. if a relationship is on the cards).Good luck

Sounds like she's talking to you out of politeness to be honest. If I was interested in a guy I'd be asking questions back to keep the conversation going, and/or messaging/texting

I think the only way you'll know for sure is if you bite the bullet and ask her directly if she'd like to go out on a date with you sometime.

is she a shy girl in general? because girls never really want to make any moves on guys or show any signs of interest unless they are 100% sure that the guy likes them! Especially for shy girls who lack in confidence dont like the idea of letting down their guards and getting rejected! As theyve probably had to slowly build up the courage to show any interests and dont want to get embarrassed by not receiving any back. maybe make it very prominent that you like her more than just acquaintances or friends! you can say things like.. you enjoy talking to her or that you enjoy her company! compliment her and make her feel special

See no reason to do so unless you encounter negative IOIs. At least suggest you hang out some time and see what she says, before giving up!

I barely saw her this week, also on a supremely superficial note, I liked her fb profile pic from 2015 and she didnt anything of mine back?

I really think I should give up, she has barely given any positive signs..

I can't say anything bc Foo.mp3 has said it all.He's the relationship master

doesn't really matter if she s interested in u or not at this point
..u can still approach her, but not just on fb ffs

@Foo.mp3 is indeed a master!



surely I should approach her only if shes interested me (if I have a romantic intent)

-Im not very good at being just friends with girls, I either dont talk much or try too hard

I have shown that I like her before (complimenting her and starting conversations) but she doesnt seem to keep it going (she is a shy girl)

the fb thing was only cos I barely see her at school (shes in a lower year) and I wondered if shed like my pic back out of a small interest?

but she didnt even do that....

You probably aren't interested anymore but I thought Id give a quick update...

Its strange cos I talked to her yesterday briefly, I asked about her studies and general small talk but she never asked me a question?

I also paused in the middle of the convo to see if she would continue the convo but she didnt so I restarted it for a short while before leaving.

The thing is, she doesn't initiate convos over msg or irl but when I ask her stuff, she provides a lot of detail and gives good body language, like strong eye contact and smiling

-I also complimented her glasses but she didnt say anything about it, I think she was embarrassed?

is she possibly intimidated or just shy? (shes a year younger and we have barely talked before)

she is definitely more of a quiet type and Im more confident and outgoing so maybe thats why?

or should I just stop trying and wait for her to reach out to me?

She could be shy or she might be slightly autistic? Why not just seek to engage her in communication more or just ask her out? Theres no garm in saying youd be interested in ding soemthing fun or getting to know her better.

you misunderstood me
i said that she doesn't necessarily have to be interested in you now
waiting for the ppl you find attractive to like you back isn't really the best way to go, especially with shy types
and starting a convo with a girl or complimenting her isn't a great indicator that you like her.. unless you're a sixth grader
man up and ask her out

Dude! Seriously, you should try to become closer with her, if you think she is interested in you in any way then go for it, but if not, try and show that you are by being flirty, then she might know that you like her and will become conscious of it.