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Help, Bf wants me to wear a bikini

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Original post by IronicalMan
Odd.
You sound like the sort of person to cause problems, be very bad at solving them and quite frankly whine over everything.
What's dumb about traditional family then ?
Does it upset you because you want to get into a relationship and go round cuckolding people?
Or think that someone would want you over a less whiny woman who isn't a sloot.
You sound like a sloot based on the doing whatever you want and whining.


Looooooooooooool
some of us don't want the traditional boring life where girls are weak and dependant on a man because they all they want is love, kids and marriage
your choice for what u want to wear..not his:u:
Original post by samantham999
Looooooooooooool
some of us don't want the traditional boring life where girls are weak and dependant on a man because they all they want is love, kids and marriage


Funny, because that's the only reason human beings still exist.
What's so **** about wanting kids, love and marriage lmao.
Interesting how you didn't deny the sloot part.
Probably just as well you don't want it really.

Also, I think you'll find women do have a say in their relationships/marriages.
Some even more than the man.
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Original post by IronicalMan
Funny, because that's the only reason human being still exist.
What's so **** about wanting kids, love and marriage lmao.
Interesting how you didn't deny the sloot part.
Probably just as well you don't want it really.


what does sloot mean?
Original post by samantham999
what does sloot mean?


Replace the "oo" with "u".
Original post by samantham999

I hate girls more than men. Weak naive creatures who have no ambition, want to get knocked up the day they graduate from university and live at home while the man is out working.
you should get to know more girls
Original post by JohnGreek
OP sounds like a conservative Christian to me.


Why?
Original post by IronicalMan
Replace the "oo" with "u".


a slUt? I have never had relations with a man before
and i'm against G & Les but i still respect them as people
Original post by samantham999
a slUt? I have never had relations with a man before
and i'm against G & Les but i still respect them as people


You honestly sound like a proper feminist one, hence the whining etc.
I don't believe you're 19 though.
Maybe you're just odd idk.
Original post by IronicalMan
You honestly sound like a proper feminist one, hence the whining etc.
I don't believe you're 19 though.
Maybe you're just odd idk.


I hate the word feminism. Its so stupid, I believe women and equal to men but women never put themselves out there. the term feminism nowadays is associated with bazaar things which I found stupid
Original post by samantham999
Wow, I actually laughed while reading this.
Why would anyone want to be in a relationship if they cannot do what the hell they wish?
and no. I said she doesn't need to ask her fat boyfriend as to what she can or cannot wear. He just wants his D to be enticed when looking at her but she is not comfortable so shut up about compromise.

humans are so weak, esp girls they just want attention, affection and love because they are weak.


I think that in some situations there should be a little compromise (as long as it isn't harming the person) but when it comes to clothing, yea I just see it as insignificant stuff (so long as someone doesn't dress in a unusually extreme way)

I agree many girls put this dainty submissive scared of spiders/breaking a nail act on probably as it makes them feel 'feminine'. When I beat a guy at an arm wrestle or do more pull ups than them everyone makes a big deal of it saying how strong I am just because I don't have a d***. I just think guess what I still have muscles which can be trained to get stronger for many tasks : /
Original post by JohnGreek
OP sounds like a conservative Christian to me.


Well I'm not even religious lol, but I was self conscious about wearing even t shirts when younger, it's just me. Why try to put people in categories, it leads to you making assumptions and can give you the wrong idea of people.
Original post by Anonymous
Well I'm not even religious lol, but I was self conscious about wearing even t shirts when younger, it's just me. Why try to put people in categories, it leads to you making assumptions and can give you the wrong idea of people.


So what are you going to do about it and tell him?
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriend wants me to wear a bikini when we go on holiday but I've never worn one in my life and don't want to. I'm happy in shorts and vest. He said he doesn't want to feel like he's going on holiday with a mate. Do most people wear them or something? I just want something comfy that I can walk around in and stay cool too!


Hopefully you mean at the beach or swimming pool and not anywhere else lol

I would say if your bf is going shirtless then the bikini would make more sense. It would look weird if your bf is in his normal clothes and he expects you to go in your bikini. People might think he's taking advantage of you
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It's your decision to wear a bikini, if you choose to do so.

If you do decide to wear a bikini, you can get a beach dress to wear over it?
Original post by samantham999
Nothing to do with the private parts. Only kissing/hugging
could you do it?


Then nope. I have a very high libido.
Original post by AlexFam
Then nope. I have a very high libido.


If you have high libido then you clearly watch porn/masturbate
Original post by samantham999
If you have high libido then you clearly watch porn/masturbate


Nope. It's only just returned back to normal after an abusive relationship (I couldn't do anything except sleep, I didn't even get morning wood). Watching porn/masturbating takes away the fun unless someone is watching you and enjoying it. Porn in general made me terrible with women.
Original post by AlexFam
Nope. It's only just returned back to normal after an abusive relationship (I couldn't do anything except sleep, I didn't even get morning wood). Watching porn/masturbating takes away the fun unless someone is watching you and enjoying it. Porn in general made me terrible with women.


Abusive relationship? I'm sorry, did the girl physically or mentally abuse you?
people think its always the guy doing it to the girl but it can happen to men too
Original post by samantham999
Abusive relationship? I'm sorry, did the girl physically or mentally abuse you?
people think its always the guy doing it to the girl but it can happen to men too


Emotional abuse.

Yeah that's a crock of ****. Women are evil.

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