Would you count this as losing your virginity?

Yes no maybe I don't know can you repeat the question...

Who cares just say what you want when it suits you, it's not as though it bloody matters you're much older now... Forget it

yeah, I'd say it's as soon as ya go in, doesn't matter if/how you finish

I've always pondered this. Now, I count myself as losing my virginity when I was 16, always have and whenever discussing my first time, it's always that time, when I did it in a bed and reached orgasm. However, when I was 14 I had a group of friends that all lived on the same road. One of them turned 16 and was having a house party - we were all there of course, and my GF and I at the time had quite a bit to drink. We snuck off out the back gate into the alleyway, things got hot and heavy and I ended up penetrating her against the wall (classy, I know). Thing is, I was pumping away for probably about 20 seconds, then we heard people coming so we stopped, pulled our bottoms back up and pretended to just be kissing.

I've spoken to a few people about this and some reckon I lost my virginity when I was 14, others wouldn't really count it. What's your verdict, TSR? Including a poll for your convenience.

Obviously!! When the D goes into the V you have lost your virginity it doesnt matter if it was quick/long/awful/great
14 is so young btw

I've always pondered this. Now, I count myself as losing my virginity when I was 16, always have and whenever discussing my first time, it's always that time, when I did it in a bed and reached orgasm. However, when I was 14 I had a group of friends that all lived on the same road. One of them turned 16 and was having a house party - we were all there of course, and my GF and I at the time had quite a bit to drink. We snuck off out the back gate into the alleyway, things got hot and heavy and I ended up penetrating her against the wall (classy, I know). Thing is, I was pumping away for probably about 20 seconds, then we heard people coming so we stopped, pulled our bottoms back up and pretended to just be kissing.

I've spoken to a few people about this and some reckon I lost my virginity when I was 14, others wouldn't really count it. What's your verdict, TSR? Including a poll for your convenience.

Whatever happened to you and that ria girl?

Whoa... then what have you got to say about doing oral/anal? Are you still a virgin if you've sucked off a guy, for instance?

doesn't count unless it's 21 seconds or more bro

Looool I was just saying when the d goes into the v because he did that at that party
Tbh some people would class oral/anal as not having sex but I do tbh
Would you?

"when the d goes in the v"
I guess it would be a bit hypocritical to call yourself a virgin if you've had 10 dicks in your mouth/ass but none in your vagina...
But then again, at least for a girl, the loss of virginity is associated with breaking your hymen, soo...
And this takes us to another issue, 'cause sex is not the only way to break a hymen.

I guess we'll have to leave this questions to the philosophers

10 dicks looooool ew and yeah true, tbh I would class them all as loosing your virginity.
Some people would class loosing your virginity differently but tbh when I think of the term virgin I think unexperienced and pure in the way he/she has never been intimate

Biologically speaking, you're still a virgin, even if you've given oral.

In that case, what would you say about an 11-year-old who got raped? Is she a virgin or not?

See, that's why the whole virginity things is utter BS. And the whole 'waiting until marriage', even more so.

I don't think so, the climax is an integral part of the "shag".