Why did they send me these photos? (clubbing)

I get anxiety and paranoid pretty badly, when I got sent these photos late last night I was physically shaking, hands, legs, everything.

So for the third time in this relationship now, my partner was sending me photos last night with people they was out clubbing with (opposite gender). They seemed to be in pretty close proximity with them, even though they told me they hated drunk guys being around them (pushed me away on our night out for the same reason, not this person though). What makes it worse is that this person had a crush on my girlfriend, and now they are doing this ¬_¬

This isnt the first time, they have done this before and I've confronted them about it and asked how they would feel in that position and they would have felt the same as I do now, yet they go and do it again? The fact that the photo was sent directly to me is even worse, I'm fairly certain the breaking point in their last relationship was when their ex was sending photos with other people (opposite gender again)...

Theres a few other things that kinda add to this, how they dont have fun with me in the club but do when around other people, almost like they just love the attention.

What do I do TSR, all opinions are welcomed.

I get anxiety and paranoid pretty badly, when I got sent these photos late last night I was physically shaking, hands, legs, everything.

So for the third time in this relationship now, my partner was sending me photos last night with people they was out clubbing with (opposite gender). They seemed to be in pretty close proximity with them, even though they told me they hated drunk guys being around them (pushed me away on our night out for the same reason, not this person though). What makes it worse is that this person had a crush on my girlfriend, and now they are doing this ¬_¬

This isnt the first time, they have done this before and I've confronted them about it and asked how they would feel in that position and they would have felt the same as I do now, yet they go and do it again? The fact that the photo was sent directly to me is even worse, I'm fairly certain the breaking point in their last relationship was when their ex was sending photos with other people (opposite gender again)...

Theres a few other things that kinda add to this, how they dont have fun with me in the club but do when around other people, almost like they just love the attention.

What do I do TSR, all opinions are welcomed.

So for the third time in this relationship now, my partner was sending me photos last night with people they was out clubbing with (opposite gender).

I think since you've confronted them in the past about it, i would mention it again and consider if you really want to be in a relationship with them, explain if its making you doubtful.

Your paranoia is ridiculous, it's just pics. Still, I've no idea why would your partner send them to you? Looks like she wants your attention (jealousy). Badly. If she doesn't stop, send her screenshots of you chatting to hot girls online and see how she reacts or something.

"They was"?

They were* My grammar is not what it use to be

How many partners do you have?

Omg maybe you should just lock your bf/gf up and not let them into society because you don't have any confidence that you're enough for him/her.

Im all for them going out and having a good time, I'm not ordering them to stop socializing with their friends at all. I just think it was out of line sending me those photos. And next time, dont be an *******. If you were in my situation you'd maybe have more sympathy instead of being insensitive.

If I was in your position I wouldn't be crying over my gf in a picture next to a guy.

You're relationship must suck that you can't even trust her even though you have zero evidence of her doing anything and she doesn't have a record of cheating on you.

Why do you keep referring to your partner as "they" "their" "them" and then give it away by telling us she's your gf lol

Anyway, I've been in this situation before with somebody I used to know and they too would send similar photos as you've described at a rave and stuff, or constant screenshots of their convos with the opposite gender, that kind of thing. It used to make me feel like " ??? I don't wanna know this ****" and it eventually bored me to death and so I cut them off because I cba with mind games.

So let me tell you, it's most likely an attention seeking tactic to try and make you jealous.

She knows exactly what she is doing in sending you those photos and is perhaps looking for some sort of reaction. Like how are you even supposed to respond?? "oh you look cute together" I think not.

You can either mention it, which she'll probably love, or act like you aren't phased until she gets bored of it. It's head games either way though and that isn't healthy in a relationship.