I have a feeling that my mother doesn't like spending time with me

Today she got angry that I couldn't light the candle and was very unkind.Every day I wake up and do the dishes clean the house vacuum I do my own washing etc I sometimes cook.In the morning for her birthday, I went with my step-father to get her flowers etc I tidied up after both breakfast and lunch.I feel hurt as I feel like she doesn't want to spend time with me.I came to her today asking for an apology as when she got angry about me lighting a candle she hurt my feelings.Her response was like stop bothering me it made me feel sad as I try to be a good daughter always at home doing my homework I never go out I know so many people my age who do things like smoking,drinking alcohol etc and I don't and it makes me feel hurt as I feel like she doesn't see that I try my best and this feeling is getting in the way of my productivity as I try so hard to be good and yet I feel like for what she doesn't even see it maybe I want to be like other rebellious teens because there is no point being good.I feel like she finds me boring we have practically nothing in common.