Fancy my flatmate

Hey,

So my flatmate and I have been flirting (slightly - or she's being really nice, but only to me) since we moved in and I need some advice now. Yesterday I found out she's been telling her friends something about me, but I don't know what. Also, she's smiling every time she sees me and obviously she trusts me the most from all of the other guys in our flat.
How can I test if she's into me?
And as for now, should I flirt more and try to kiss her at some point, preferably when she's drunk or should I ask her out? Time is running, because another girl is trying to hook her up with another guy and she already said yes about meeting him in a group setting in a few days.

Thanks!

Could you just rearrange the rooms and move her into yours?
Move all her groceries into your his and hers cupboards

Time is running out, dont be a mouse.

I'd be quite cautious in how you attempt this, try and be social, go into her room for a chat, I'm sure if she's throwing you some signals,it's a good sign. However, don't make the same mistake I did and ignore the signals.

Are you a fresher? Lol you really don't want to get hung up on your flatmate. Awkward living arrangements if it doesn't work out.

But if she's really into you, you'll know about it. Don't rush into anything, slow down and see what develops. Uni has a lot to offer until then.

Yeah no risk no fun, if it doesn't work out everyone's gonna forget after a week or so.
So do you think I should wait even though she's gonna meet another guy in a few days because this girl is trying to hook her up with him?

Fair enough!
You could ask her out for that particular day and see whether or not she chooses to hang with you and cancel on him? That way you'll know if she's interested or not

I'd be quite cautious in how you attempt this, try and be social, go into her room for a chat, I'm sure if she's throwing you some signals,it's a good sign. However, don't make the same mistake I did and ignore the signals.

Hey,

So my flatmate and I have been flirting (slightly - or she's being really nice, but only to me) since we moved in and I need some advice now. Yesterday I found out she's been telling her friends something about me, but I don't know what. Also, she's smiling every time she sees me and obviously she trusts me the most from all of the other guys in our flat.
How can I test if she's into me?
And as for now, should I flirt more and try to kiss her at some point, preferably when she's drunk or should I ask her out? Time is running, because another girl is trying to hook her up with another guy and she already said yes about meeting him in a group setting in a few days.

Thanks!

I'd say you best move is to ask her out for coffee just start small and if that goes well then go out for a meal and just buy a nice silver piece for her and just keep working on it and eventually you'll make it
you just have to make the time and effort and it will pay off

You'll probably be looking for another flatmate by Christmas... Don't s*** where you eat.

What's the worst that can happen? If things go wrong it's gonna be weird for a week or so.

Not being rude, but that's incredibly naïve. You don't go from flatmates to sexual partners to flatmates again as if they're three courses of a meal. Most people don't, anyway.

Not being rude, but that's incredibly naïve. You don't go from flatmates to sexual partners to flatmates again as if they're three courses of a meal. Most people don't, anyway.

^ this

Personally wouldn't do it.

So what should I do then? Just keep on flirting?

I think you need to decide what you want out of this - a flatmate or a squeeze? And be aware whilst making this decision that if the relationship goes tits up, the likelihood is that one of you will have to move out - is that a situation you want to find yourself in?

I think you need to decide what you want out of this - a flatmate or a squeeze? And be aware whilst making this decision that if the relationship goes tits up, the likelihood is that one of you will have to move out - is that a situation you want to find yourself in?

Just thought about it again. What if I didn't take the chance and saw her with some other guy? She might be scared about the same thing anyway. So I think I should go for it. I don't understand why we should be on bad terms if things went tits up.