I have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months now and feel really strongly for him, however there are a few things that really bother me.*
Quite a few years ago he became really good friends with a girl and they have got into the habit of talking every day/every other day and meeting up every week. It is usually for a couple of hours I think and a couple of times a week at her house. He says she lives really close by and he talks to his guy friends that often aswell. They even know eachothers familys really well. He reassures me that they are like brother and sister and there is no attraction and she is just a friend so I have nothing to worry about. I trust that he isnt cheating and he has introduced us and she made an effort to talk to me.*
But no matter what is said I really do hate it and I am not sure what to do about it anymore. He says he is doing nothing wrong so doesn't understand, but mentioned he has spoken to her about it briefly and she said she would feel exactly the same if a boyfriend of hers had a close girl mate. In a way this makes me feel worse that they both know their friendship makes me uncomfortable but neither is willing to tone it down a bit. He is starting to get reallt irritated at me bringing it up and is annoyed he feels he has to keep explaining himself. Is it unreasonable to request their friendship is toned down a bit and he makes more effort with me? **