How lonely are you /10?

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Reply 60

Lazarus26

6-7/10

Reply 61

h333

Original post by Londons Rude Boy

But what if he isn't there for you, and you are all aloooone. :sly:

Oh trust me I am not alone, I have my family as well as my creator. Why the empahsis on alone lol?

Reply 62

Londons Rude Boy

Original post by h333

Oh trust me I am not alone, I have my family as well as my creator. Why the empahsis on alone lol?

Okay good, I am just kidding. :tongue:

7/10

Original post by Londons Rude Boy

Okay good, I am just kidding. :tongue:

Lol. Np

Reply 65

TreeFellOnMe

Probably around 2/10

I got too much to do on my own, and find someone's company unnecessary and getting in the way a lot of times.

Reply 66

Toke123

Original post by stefano865

Probably a 6/10 tbh

:sad:

Have no idea really, lonely after a night out sometimes but too busy for anyone i think

Reply 67

Andy98

Each day you can calculate it by taking my posts during sociable hours and using the reciprocal.

EDIT: actually, sod the reciprocal part

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Reply 68

GenialGermanGent

A lot of pathetic people in here...

0/10 due to wife, close with family, loads of friends in all countries I ever lived in, and a job which requires social interaction.

Reply 69

pamplemousse.

Original post by Anonymous

Idk really.

I don't have a single friend. I'm in A2 now but there hasn't been a single occasion where I've ever met up with anyone from sixth form outside of school. I sit and eat lunch on my own. The only socialisation I get is with teachers, which is why I often hang around after class and pack up real slow so I have an excuse to talk to them. I mean, there's no one else who I can tell that I sent my UCAS in, or that I sat an admissions test the other day. I have no one to share that with. But I think that just bugs them.

I think I probably say less than 50 words a day in sixth form to other people my own age, on average. Naturally over the weekend I don't talk to anyone. I never get any messages on Facebook or anything. But I'm not completely passive either. The other day I tried asking someone how they were doing over Facebook. No response. Even when I really really tried to make an effort and be extroverted at the beginning of AS, it came to nothing and just drained me of my energy.

Not a day goes by without me thinking about how I don't have friends. Fortunately I'm not totally deprived because there are some people I talk to online occasionally. I don't know if they're really 'friends' though. I still feel alone.

So I guess 9/10, even though it doesn't feel too bad. Maybe I've just gotten used to it. Honestly it's so painful trying to make friends, it's so forced, can it really be worth it? But I'm not capable of it anyway; it's impossible.

I am the same in a lot of ways- I was too scared to even try to sit with people at lunch because I didn't feel I knew them well enough, so I stayed in the library all the time. Now though, I eat lunch with people from my tutorial and old politics class twice a week :smile:

still never see people outside of college though. I now get on with people and do chat to people at college and think I am liked which is nice. I don't have a social life at home though, and I don't know how to start one- or, sometimes, even if I would enjoy it with how I am. My old friend who I haven't seen for ages (she's at uni and before then had a boyfriend who she saw a lot) has invited me to the Leeds Vegan Christmas market in November though, which is nice :smile:

Feel free to message me.

Reply 70

Grace_Cong1998

6/10
Feel lonely at most times but also have friends to talk to when in trouble. :smile:

Reply 71

rosemondtan

Original post by UWS

TSRian/10

PRSOM

Reply 72

user382

Original post by TitanicTeutonicPhil

A lot of pathetic people in here...

0/10 due to wife, close with family, loads of friends in all countries I ever lived in, and a job which requires social interaction.

You're pathetic for not being a bit more sympathetic. :colonhash:

Less intelligent people are often less lonely.

Reply 73

MrsSheldonCooper

About 6-7? Depends on days.

Reply 74

GenialGermanGent

[QUOTE=stefano865;68061554Less intelligent people are often less lonely.

I think my academic and professional achievements say enough about my intelligence, thank you very much.

Reply 75

user382

Original post by TitanicTeutonicPhil

I think my academic and professional achievements say enough about my intelligence, thank you very much.

I guess that's a consolation for having the emotional intelligence of a newt.

Reply 76

Anonymous #4

ranges between about 6/10 to 8/10. about a 7/7.5 most of the time

Reply 77

GenialGermanGent

Original post by stefano865

I guess that's a consolation for having the emotional intelligence of a newt.

Again, my successful marriage, loads of friends, and professional success contradict that.

Not go outside and talk to someone, bitter loner.

Reply 78

user382

Original post by TitanicTeutonicPhil

Again, my successful marriage, loads of friends, and professional success contradict that.

Not go outside and talk to someone, bitter loner.

Ok bro calm down.

I'm not the one anyone should be feeling sorry for.

It was just unfair of you to call people pathetic. Some people have been dealt a very bad hand.

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Reply 79

ward47

8 / 10. me and my freinds have just started uni. we met up back at our home town the other week for the weekend and though we've all made new freinds at our respective unis we were all saying something about it just doesnt feel the same.