Be Honest. Do You Look Down On Women That Sleep Around More Than Men,

I'm 21.

And I think you mean there's nothing wrong with what I have done. I no longer sleep around. I was in control because I consented to the acts and only had sex with men I genuinely wanted to have sex with. I look back at the past with a smile. I have no regrets about it.

My boyfriend knows about my sexual past and does not judge it. He's fine with it. Because it's my past and he is my present. We had sex on our second date and I have never been in such a fulfilling relationship. Putting off sex will not make your relationship necessarily stronger. Just because we have sex doesn't mean we do it 24/7. Outside of sex, we have a strong, spiritual bond with so much in common. We take our relationship seriously.

He's 33. He could have picked a much older woman who have had next to nothing sexual partners. He had offers. But he picked me. My sexual history doesn't define our relationship. We can't wait to get married and start our family. I really look forward to sharing the rest of my life with him. Plenty of other girls with colourful sexual pasts will also have the opportunity to settle down. I'm not a one off case.

Of course, I respect that you choose to wait until marriage to have sex. If that makes you happy then by all means go for it. But you shouldn't judge girls who sleep around or 'give it up' on the first date. Relationships work in many different, complex ways. There isn't just one rule that if you have sex on the first date then it's already over. I know many married couples, who have been married for 5+ years, who had sex on their first date. The main thing is, I respect girls for all their sexual choices. As I said, many of my friends are virgins and I completely respect them for it. Why can't you celebrate women who choose to have multiple sexual partners if it's done in a consensual and safe manner?

Let's see how that goes.

if you have a child, specifically a daughter, who started doing the same acts from a young age such as 15, and she spoke to you about this stuff, doing it every week for example in secondary school, would you feel pride that youve"brought her up to make her own choices", or would you feel sad? i know youd say former but be realistic please.

No, because 15 is way too young to be having regular sex. Don't be so ridiculous. If I had a daughter then I would want her to make her own choices yes, but at an age where she can make those choices legally, with consent and maturely.

being ridiculous for saying 15 is not normal? sorry, you said youre only 21 and have had a lot of partners, it wasnt a ridiculous thought at all. ok, so even if she told you she said yes she was happy, youd hate it till she was one more year older lol and if you had a 15 year old son doing the same, and he said the same thing, youd get angry and say no, even though you consent, must be at 16?

It's going to go perfectly well thank you, because not all men want virgins. Not all men put so much importance on sex. I'm happy. We had a baby due in the summer. We're already well on our way to a happy life together. Suck it.

Oh wow. I didn't mean it in a sarcastic way. but since you want to go there: not getting the ring then, uh?

Then why say it if it wasn't sarcastic? Clearly said in a doubtful way. Anyway, I'm really done justifying myself to you because you're an impossible person. You're a true Christian- judgemental and will attack others as you believe your beliefs are superior to others, so props to you. Mate, getting that ring really isn't that much of a priority. I wouldn't mind being married down the line but overall, marriage is an archaic, religious idea. Not everyone is so desperate to get married in 2015.

I really just think you need a fat spliff and a fat cock and you wouldn't feel the need to judge others so harshly.

LOL! i just died, fat cock
Thats weird, i thought youd have that response about marriage, to each their own i guess

why on earth will you call out ludicrous standards, are you a spokesperson for betas or something? there are many people like you on here, who jump to defend women for everything. stop the white knighting.

What are you on about? I was specifically calling out double standards held by women, particularly the idea that a man should be more successful than the woman to be a worthwhile dating prospect. Please do try to follow the conversation and comprehend the post next time.

No, sorry. Your friends are a reflection of who you are. I don't want a friend with that kind of mentality. Yes, I am judging.

And I did say that sometimes with works out for people, sometimes it doesn't. I am just trying to stay in topic here. The question was if I judge and I do.

I'm glad you found someone. Let's see how that goes.

it sounded like you were talking about campaigning for justice for women who sleep around who get judged. nvm lol, leave it blud.

Then why say it if it wasn't sarcastic? Clearly said in a doubtful way. Anyway, I'm really done justifying myself to you because you're an impossible person. You're a true Christian- judgemental and will attack others as you believe your beliefs are superior to others, so props to you. Mate, getting that ring really isn't that much of a priority. I wouldn't mind being married down the line but overall, marriage is an archaic, religious idea. Not everyone is so desperate to get married in 2015.

I really just think you need a fat spliff and a fat cock and you wouldn't feel the need to judge others so harshly.