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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 18:32 #1 
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Default I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
I fail at life.

I had a job i got fired.

I got an interview and i failed.

And if i don't get into my Uni that i want to go to, i will kill myself.
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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 18:34 #2 
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Default Re: I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
Why did you get fired? Why did you fail your interview? Make a list and work on improving yourself (if you need improving, i.e. it wasn't out of your control - if it was, make a list and work on improving your life).
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Counselling. Anonymous internet people probably won't help. You need to talk to someone face-to-face.
 
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That is not a good enough reason to kill yourself.

Troll?
 
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cheer up chuck, even i've had it worse than you
 
Old 2 Weeks Ago: 3rd November 2009 18:37 #6 
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Don't worry mate, ive been there but it seems bad now but a lot can change in a matter of a few months. Fight for life mate, don't take the easy way out.
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So your a pussy? fail at three things and you would kill yourself? tut tut tut. Not on dude/dudette
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Default Re: I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
Lots of people get fired, lots of people fail at interview (my ex had literally dozens of interviews when he finished at Cambridge before he was offered a job), lots of people don't get into their first choice of uni (I didn't but I'm actually glad I didn't - I love the uni I'm at instead).

You need to stop focusing on the disappointments you've had and focus on the good things in your life which I promise you there will be. You also need to go and speak to someone about this. Seriously.
 
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Sounds like you've made your decision. Anyway, the people who are serious about it don't broadcast that that's the way they are feeling.
 
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Default Re: I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
Getting into uni is overrated, there is more than one at which you can be happy, atleast there should be if you've done your research properly and applied to the right ones.

Millions of people have lost their jobs over the last year, you don't have to fail to be redundant.

My dad has been applying to jobs, going to interviews...some of them for the perfect job for him, and hasn't got in.

He also lost both of his parents and his wife in about 3 years.

He's still going.

Bad things happen, sometimes alot of them at once. To use a phrase that I hate, man up. There is life after the epic fail.
 
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Originally Posted by matrix15
Counselling. Anonymous internet people probably won't help. You need to talk to someone face-to-face.


Already do. Waste of time.
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Stop feeling sorry for yourself and change.
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Originally Posted by pl,okmijn
So your a pussy? fail at three things and you would kill yourself? tut tut tut. Not on dude/dudette


No i have depression and have done for 5 years nearly and i slit and all that junk so i would do it... i've been called 'strong' and 'determined' by people but i'm not either of them...
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Join the organ donor register first, yeah?
 
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Originally Posted by Charlski
Lots of people get fired, lots of people fail at interview (my ex had literally dozens of interviews when he finished at Cambridge before he was offered a job), lots of people don't get into their first choice of uni (I didn't but I'm actually glad I didn't - I love the uni I'm at instead).

You need to stop focusing on the disappointments you've had and focus on the good things in your life which I promise you there will be. You also need to go and speak to someone about this. Seriously.


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Why come on here and tell us? You are pathetic. No-one wants to hear your moody replies.
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Default Re: I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
this is a bit different from the usual posts youre going to get -see a counsellor, grow up etcetc
but i applied for medicine at uni last year and ive wanted to do it for ages, and then i didnt work for my alevls and didnt get in. My fifth choice was optometry in london which i got an offer for but i also go an offer for molecular med from one of the unis i applied for medicine to. I felt like such a failure for ages and in the end i took the molecular med option

and now, 6 or so months on im so happy i did. i dont think i could have picked a better course/uni for myself and im the happiest ive been in ages. and i realised i didnt actually want to do medicine, it was just a childhood 'i want to be an astronaut' type thing. i didnt actually think about it so im really glad i didnt get into that too

so basically just take what life gives and make the most of it because you never knoe, you might actually love it
 
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Default Re: I will be dead in less than 6 months...
 
Originally Posted by EskimoJo
Join the organ donor register first, yeah?

Apart from the "go to therapy" balls that's allready been said, I'd say this was the best piece of advice I could give you if you're dead set on dying. Could always do some volunteer work as well.
 
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Yes there are. My mother suffers from severe depression and on occasions in the past has decided to take herself off her medication. During those times she has decided that there is nothing good in her life, that she has nothing to live for etc when in fact she has everything to live for. I've seen this kind of mentality first hand and I KNOW it's not true to say there's nothing good in your life. It may be the way you see it, but it's not real.
 
 
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