Ladies - How Important Is Penis Size In A Relationship??

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It doesnt mean nothing.

It means women like big penises and penis size matter- this is the point I was making in previous posts.

What I was saying was that it is not the be-all-end-all...and it doesn't matter that much. Guys with an average size penis can reach the g-spot. They have all the tools they need.

Reply 41

bloomblaze

Original post by Lucia.

What I was saying was that it is not the be-all-end-all...and it doesn't matter that much. Guys with an average size penis can reach the g-spot. They have all the tools they need.

Thats not what other women say on the matter.

Reply 42

username540512

Original post by bloomblaze

I didnt mention porn.

Women in real life say they like them big.

women say they like big ones on internet forums.

Casual sex sites/dating sites etc have many women listing a big penis as what they want in a man

The majority of chicks won't have seen anything beyond 8 inches. They're EXTREMELY rare. Hell 7 is rare. Seriously...you wouldn't believe how big 7/8 is up close. Chicks will claim they want big, a lot dont have a clue what theyre asking for, and wont have a clue how to judge the size when it comes down to it.

Would you disgard a girlfriend based on how tight her poosay is? No? Right.

Reply 43

Lucia.

Original post by bloomblaze

Thats not what other women say on the matter.

How many women have you asked?
How sexually experienced are those women anyway?

Reply 44

Sharpshooter

Original post by Aisha~~

The majority of chicks won't have seen anything beyond 8 inches. They're EXTREMELY rare.

I don't think its as rare as you think it is. I really don't. Theres no way it can be IMO. There's plenty of people with those sizes around.

Reply 45

Jakeh

Original post by Lucia.

Exactly.

You went to the same school as my friend - how interesting. She's doing a PhD at Oxford now.

Means nothing.

So they might like big penises. I guess they wouldn't dislike them...although really big can hurt to be honest.

Anyway, the fact they like big penises is only the half of it. If a guy thinks he can get by just on having a big penis, then he doesn't know how to get a woman off. Trust me.

I did? William De Ferrers?

Reply 46

username540512

Original post by Sharpshooter

I don't think its as rare as you think it is. I really don't. Theres no way it can be IMO. There's plenty of people with those sizes around.

You sure? This was a proper survey taken by a condom company. Measured by staff so no bull****ting.

Strong Saturday night spent wikipedia'ing human penis size :frown:

Reply 47

Yuffy

I only think it is a problem if it is too big or too small. If have you have a 1 inch member or a 13inch cock girls might see a problem. But then again this isnt a fact, all girls have there seperate opinion

Reply 48

-steph-

I honestly dont think that size matter, its all about how you use it. As a guy could have the largest penis but not be very good at using it.

Reply 49

Lucia.

Original post by -steph-

I honestly dont think that size matter, its all about how you use it. As a guy could have the largest penis but not be very good at using it.

Exactly.

I have no doubt that a lot of women would agree with you.

Reply 50

Lord Hysteria

Original post by Lucia.

What I was suggesting was that what the media and porn industry says women like, is different from what women actually like....you know if you asked them!

When you have sex you'll realise that porn is a crap indication of how to be good in bed. That's all I meant.

Right ... that's not why people jerk to it the most ...

And when was the last time you spoke to "women" and found out what "women" want? I like the condition you added "you know if you asked them" ... I can only guess your inquiries have extended to all womenkind ..

Reply 51

Lord Hysteria

Original post by Lucia.

What I was saying was that it is not the be-all-end-all...and it doesn't matter that much. Guys with an average size penis can reach the g-spot. They have all the tools they need.

Tools? Like a hammer or something? :confused:

Why invest in tools in the first place ...

Reply 52

Lucia.

Original post by Lord Hysteria

I don't jerk off to porn because the porn actors have big penises.

I'm not trying to speak for all women. I have always said "the majority" or "a lot" of women. And I speak from experience. I don't wave around my opinions unless I'm confident in their factually-derived basis.

Original post by Lord Hysteria

Tools? Like a hammer or something? :confused:

Why invest in tools in the first place ...

I know - not good wording haha :biggrin:

What I meant was that all men have the capability to sexually satisfy a woman. They don't have to change anything about their anatomy to achieve that.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 53

Sharpshooter

Original post by Aisha~~

You sure? This was a proper survey taken by a condom company. Measured by staff so no bull****ting.

Strong Saturday night spent wikipedia'ing human penis size :frown:

I know I feel for you, I apologise for starting the thread. :tongue:

Pfft sorry I just can't believe that. There's no way those stats are true.

But like I say whats big or not isn't relevant and its not why I started the thread. I started it to denounce the concept of penis size, which is an overrated issue.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 54

username540512

Original post by Sharpshooter

I know I feel for you, I apologise for starting the thread. :tongue:

15cm soft is pretty damn big. Your height/weight has nothing to do with it, excluding the fact that being fat can 'hide' some of your size. You're fine. Stop worrying. You'd be EXTREMELY unlucky to find a chick that turns you down for your dick.

Also as a bi guy, it matters for me. But I'm ****ed up beyond belief anyway, and I wouldn't take it to the extreme that average is unacceptable.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 55

Lord Hysteria

Original post by Lucia.

What I meant was that all men have the capability to sexually satisfy a woman. They don't have to change anything about their anatomy to achieve that.

I am not sure about the last sentence. It seems quite cruel and prejudicial against guys with small cocks - but I also have experience on my side which is generally in favour of guys with big cocks. I know that some girls must get their kicks out of small willies but, otherwise, it's not quite the same ...

But I do agree that cocks play a part of sex. I find a lot of sex seems to be rooted in power and the dark & obscure hangups we acquire in our younger years (which we call fetishes) ...

Reply 56

Lucia.

Original post by Lord Hysteria

Well I believe that guys with small penises can still satisfy a woman. I really believe that. :smile:

I was trying to give a positive spin - I mean no one can change what's there but we can all make the best of our skills.

Reply 57

Lord Hysteria

Original post by Lucia.

Well I believe that guys with small penises can still satisfy a woman. I really believe that. :smile:

I was trying to give a positive spin - I mean no one can change what's there but we can all make the best of our skills.

Hmm. You're terribly familiar ... we've talked before on TSR? ... :hmmmm:

Reply 58

Sharpshooter

Original post by Aisha~~

I'm between 14cm and 15cm (well between the two you know it varies) but like I say the concept is very overrated. I mean lets be honest, a tall man probably going to stronger than a shorter man so for evolutionary reasons thats deemed as more attractive. But a man with a big penis, what does that do exactly? :biggrin:

I hope a girl doesn't pass comment on my penis personally. I'd worried if she did.