Boyfriend asked me to sleep with his friends!?!

Been with my boyfriend for about 8 months and anyway I really like him but the other night he said would I sleep with his friends and I took this as a joke and was like no and laughed it off. But then later he said that thy'd make it worth my while and if it was money I wanted he could get them to pay.....I feel so insulted...I really dont understand he's also suggested that we have a night of 4 of us 3 guys and me......I've had a threesome before but that was different I feel physically sick at how a guy I trusted thinks this of me what do i do?

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Ditch him girl!

Original post by Anonymous

And your'e still with him? i really hope you aint..

Reply 3

JaiiStarh

He wants to prostitute his girlfriend??? Tell him to Gtfo!

(edited 12 years ago)

Reply 4

username547863

If hes got that type of mentality its only a matter of time untill he cheats on you

Leave him... Simple.

My bull**** button is a flashing!

Reply 7

StephanieLeanne

Why does he want to sleep with three guys and not three girls? "/

Reply 8

canimakeit

GANGBANG!!!

Someone has been watching too much porn

Leave him right now!

what the

He's trying to be a pimp...quite literally :lolwut:

Reply 11

silverbolt

Original post by RosiL

Ditch him girl!

FFS Why is that such a knee jerk response on this forum to everything from "he slept with my mother" to "he lost one of my socks"

OP clout him round the head with something hard, tell him to wake the hell up.

Ok asking if youd sleep with his friends is one thing. If you dont ask you dont get and all that. I can understan that but when you said no he should have left it or at least made sure you were serious.

But to then offer you money for it is insulting, crass and just nasty. I dont know whether you you should dump him for it but seriously the guy needs putting in his place.

Reply 12

JunePlum

Your boyfriend wants to sound like a pimp :erm:

... He doesn't deserve you if he thinks of you like that.

Reply 13

Liam 09

He just wants sexual proximity with his mates. I'm afraid your boyfriend is a closet homosexual.

Dump him.

Original post by silverbolt

FFS Why is that such a knee jerk response on this forum to everything from "he slept with my mother" to "he lost one of my socks"

I agree that the dump them response is overused here, but in this situation its competly appropriate. If, hypothetically you had a little sister who's boyfriend was trying to whore her out to 3 of his mates, would you honestly suggest a few stern words and move on?

Reply 16

Lesha2010

Sounds like the EastEnders storyline to me.

Reply 17

LostRiots

Sounds like that's his fetish to me.

A cuckold can also be a male who gains sexual gratification out of watching his partner have intercourse with other people. Participation can range from simply watching, to being forced to join in or even forced to give sexual gratification to the other male also.

Reply 18

cttp_ngaf

Original post by silverbolt

FFS Why is that such a knee jerk response on this forum to everything from "he slept with my mother" to "he lost one of my socks"

I know, it's ridiculous isn't it. I think there are just a load of bots on TSR that automatically reply "dump him" to any H&R thread.

OP - I don't know what you're getting so upset about. Take it as a compliment that people would pay money to sleep with you. I'd be flattered. You don't have to accept, just tell him no thanks.

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

I know but we;ve been through so much :frown:

he was there when no one else was :frown:

I am physically repulsed by it, I have tried to leave him but he said that i'll never find anyone who loves me like he does because no one else will understand me :'(