No we didn't get the same result. A Man Utd team got the same result, but it's nothing like the side that we have today. We had Evans off form, Rooney (this is the main thing), Nani and Young not starting, Hernandez still emerging, no Jones, no Smalling, different style. Our away record was dreadful as well, we've won 2 out of 2 so far including a 5-0 win. Completely different team, we're miles better now. Not saying we'd be guaranteed a win, but using a result from last year to say what'll happen this year makes very little sense when you consider how much has changed. Fulham are different as well, Hughes' organisation has gone and Jol is still making his mark.
Yes i'm 'ranting' about possibilities, but watch these possibilities become truths by the end of the season. My point is that you need to look at how a side takes advantage, or makes up for, these mistakes. A winger being marginally offside 30 yards from goal will happen countless times over the season. But how often will they beat two players and smash it in from 25 yards? The reason you're talking about the mistake is the quality of our players. I'm not arguing that referees aren't useless, because a lot of them are, but they're not putting the ball in the net themselves.
Your second paragraph I agree with. That's all we can be certain of. So I don't see how you can say you're 2 points down and we're 2 points up purely because of the referee? Not with such conviction. You said it yourself, you can't be certain the matches would have finished like that if the correct decisions were made.