Has my boyf been watching porn? Again??
Okay, a lot of you probably don't have an issue with porn being watched in your relationships, but in mine I do, due to other insecurities, but I'm not going to go into that, I just need a little help from someone?
Right, well like a month ago now I guess, I found some pages from a site in his history (before you ask, no i wasn't snooping, I was looking for some info on a holiday we have looked at earlier that week). When I saw it I felt sick, and it really got to me, he promised he wouldn't do it again, I trusted him. But here's the thing, on a site, you have to confirm you are over 18 to enter this site right? As I tried it on my laptop, and I know when I went on it his I didn't have to confirm I was 18 as he already had. On mine I confirmed I was over 18 too. Anyways, a few weeks later all his previous history had gone off of his laptop and it only showed up to a week ago. The same with mine, but this time when I tried to go on a site from my laptop it asked me once again if I was 18, however when I tried on his, I didn't have to confirm anything, It just took me straight to the main page, does this mean he's been on it and just deleted the history? You'll probably think I'm looking into it too far, but I don't want him to think he can get away with going behind my back... Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?
Right, well like a month ago now I guess, I found some pages from a site in his history (before you ask, no i wasn't snooping, I was looking for some info on a holiday we have looked at earlier that week). When I saw it I felt sick, and it really got to me, he promised he wouldn't do it again, I trusted him. But here's the thing, on a site, you have to confirm you are over 18 to enter this site right? As I tried it on my laptop, and I know when I went on it his I didn't have to confirm I was 18 as he already had. On mine I confirmed I was over 18 too. Anyways, a few weeks later all his previous history had gone off of his laptop and it only showed up to a week ago. The same with mine, but this time when I tried to go on a site from my laptop it asked me once again if I was 18, however when I tried on his, I didn't have to confirm anything, It just took me straight to the main page, does this mean he's been on it and just deleted the history? You'll probably think I'm looking into it too far, but I don't want him to think he can get away with going behind my back... Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?
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Don't always have too. Been a while since I started using it so can't remember tbh 
but if there's an issue all you can do is explain why is an issue to him rather than us and see what he says.
Probably depends on a few browser settings too. But at the end of the day there is no way you can control him going on the site. But if its causing trust issues then you need to have a really calm and serious talk with him.
I personally don't see the problem though. I watch porn all the time (more than my partner) and it means nothing.
but if there's an issue all you can do is explain why is an issue to him rather than us and see what he says.Probably depends on a few browser settings too. But at the end of the day there is no way you can control him going on the site. But if its causing trust issues then you need to have a really calm and serious talk with him.
I personally don't see the problem though. I watch porn all the time (more than my partner) and it means nothing.
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Even if he has, it's none of your business.
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Okay, yeah you may think I'm crazy but whatever, this isnt your problem and I was just looking for some advice...
Why don't you just confront him? Ask him why did you promise me something when you're clearly not keeping it? The more you look into it, I think you'll feel worse than before.
Edit: he's a guy.. What do you expect. Get over it, don't be so uptight over it... At least he's not going for another girl???
Edit: he's a guy.. What do you expect. Get over it, don't be so uptight over it... At least he's not going for another girl???
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Kind of is her business, less of the porn stuff though, but if her boyfriend has promised her something and then has gone behind her back? That's not good is it?
Ive got a solution.. if you're insecure then just don't log in to x and mind your business.... SIMPLES!!! *sqeak*
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I really don't get why some girls have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn. I'd encourage it!
It is absolutely insane to ban a guy from watching porn. It's not like he's cheating on you.
I think you're overreacting to be honest. You must be bonkers banning him from watching porn!
How old are you out of curiosity?
Original post by Anonymous
Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?
Your not going to find a boy who doesn’t like watching porn so your going to have to get over you insecurity… I don’t see it as a problem theses girls in these films are just a fantasy world, so what if he wants to visit there ever so often
Original post by Colour Me Pretty
I really don't get why some girls have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn. I'd encourage it!
Why would you encourage it?
OP, i understand your thought process and although you've not highlighted what exaclty you're insecure about, i understand why him watching other naked women would make you feel more insecure and in a sense not good enough.
Original post by Anonymous
Okay, a lot of you probably don't have an issue with porn being watched in your relationships, but in mine I do, due to other insecurities, but I'm not going to go into that, I just need a little help from someone?
Right, well like a month ago now I guess, I found some pages from a site in his history (before you ask, no i wasn't snooping, I was looking for some info on a holiday we have looked at earlier that week). When I saw it I felt sick, and it really got to me, he promised he wouldn't do it again, I trusted him. But here's the thing, on a site, you have to confirm you are over 18 to enter this site right? As I tried it on my laptop, and I know when I went on it his I didn't have to confirm I was 18 as he already had. On mine I confirmed I was over 18 too. Anyways, a few weeks later all his previous history had gone off of his laptop and it only showed up to a week ago. The same with mine, but this time when I tried to go on a site from my laptop it asked me once again if I was 18, however when I tried on his, I didn't have to confirm anything, It just took me straight to the main page, does this mean he's been on it and just deleted the history? You'll probably think I'm looking into it too far, but I don't want him to think he can get away with going behind my back... Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?
Right, well like a month ago now I guess, I found some pages from a site in his history (before you ask, no i wasn't snooping, I was looking for some info on a holiday we have looked at earlier that week). When I saw it I felt sick, and it really got to me, he promised he wouldn't do it again, I trusted him. But here's the thing, on a site, you have to confirm you are over 18 to enter this site right? As I tried it on my laptop, and I know when I went on it his I didn't have to confirm I was 18 as he already had. On mine I confirmed I was over 18 too. Anyways, a few weeks later all his previous history had gone off of his laptop and it only showed up to a week ago. The same with mine, but this time when I tried to go on a site from my laptop it asked me once again if I was 18, however when I tried on his, I didn't have to confirm anything, It just took me straight to the main page, does this mean he's been on it and just deleted the history? You'll probably think I'm looking into it too far, but I don't want him to think he can get away with going behind my back... Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?
It looks like he has been on it again and saved the answer or something which most websites allow you to do. I don't think you're looking into it too far at all, every relationship has its insecurities and if that's one you are not happy with he should respect that, regardless of what miniman tells him to do. Confront him x
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