Has my boyf been watching porn? Again??
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Chill on the porn thing.
Anyway, my laptop sometimes asks me for confirmation on [insert porn site here] and sometimes doesn't. I don't delete my history often and never delete my cookies.
So I have no idea lol.
Anyway, my laptop sometimes asks me for confirmation on [insert porn site here] and sometimes doesn't. I don't delete my history often and never delete my cookies.
So I have no idea lol.
Just because the majority of guys (and quite a few girls from what I've figured out) watch porn, it doesn't make it okay. I'm not okay with it either and the guys I've been with respect that. Usually they aren't porn addicts anyway. And how could you think it's none of her business? They are in a relationship and it certainly is her business. If her bf doesn't like that, he has a second choice.
Unless you are willing to be his personal prossie there 24/7 for his every urge, or provide him with **** loads of porn you've made yourself doing anything he asks of you, then, you don't have too much grounds to complain about him to wanting to watch it on occasions.
The only issue is the dishonesty. Really he should have been "No, your demands are unrealistic, i can cave to your insecurities and attempt to curb my porn usage for you, but I will not be able to stop completely unless you become my 24hr sex slave."
Porn is never a replacement for you or what you offer, it's just a temporary fix to tide him over.
The only issue is the dishonesty. Really he should have been "No, your demands are unrealistic, i can cave to your insecurities and attempt to curb my porn usage for you, but I will not be able to stop completely unless you become my 24hr sex slave."
Porn is never a replacement for you or what you offer, it's just a temporary fix to tide him over.
Original post by Anonymous
Just because the majority of guys (and quite a few girls from what I've figured out) watch porn, it doesn't make it okay. I'm not okay with it either and the guys I've been with respect that. Usually they aren't porn addicts anyway. And how could you think it's none of her business? They are in a relationship and it certainly is her business. If her bf doesn't like that, he has a second choice.
Equally just because some people have a problem with porn doesn't mean it's wrong.
If you try to stop your boyfriend watching porn, he'll just have to solely rely on imagining doing it with your mates while he masturbates, rather than saving that for when he can't be bothered to turn his laptop on.
Original post by popple7
hahah you've obviously never watched porn... unless you're a fan of up-the-bum love? sex in porn is naaaasty.
to the OP, get over it + get over yourself. /endthread.
to the OP, get over it + get over yourself. /endthread.
Yes I have watched porn - not all of it has to end with doing it up the bum....
Original post by Archmage
It's less funny when you post it in multiple threads.
Also not appropriate here: the OP is a nutter, not a pathetic loser.
Also not appropriate here: the OP is a nutter, not a pathetic loser.
teheheheh someone neg repped you for that
Original post by lonelykatana
teheheheh someone neg repped you for that
See I thought it was you. I should really buy a subscription so I can keep track of this stuff.
Original post by humble_bumble
... At least he's not going for another girl???
Would anyone blame the guy if he did?
I wouldn't stay with someone if they got that uptight and paranoid about me watching porn..
Original post by popple7
sex in porn is naaaasty.
There is NOTHING nasty about "Blonde Cop Girls Squirting Sex Romp Part 2" !
I agree with one thing everyone else has been saying; confront him.
if you have a problem with something he's done, talk to him about it. don't be confrontational and aggressive just say 'when looking in your history for the holiday websites, i noticed a porn website, you know i don't like you watching porn so i wondered why you did it?'. talk about it. don't accuse him, and listen to his side of the story.
but also if a guy doesn't have a 'release' for a long time tesosterone levels go up, and it gets physically uncomfortable for them, and their 'little friend' will be up almost permanently.
discuss options with him, he needs a release, could you have phone conversations which he could 'enjoy' in that way? suggest he reads erotica instead if you're okay with that? if you're over 18 (otherwise it's child pornography and he can get done), perhaps give him raunchy pictures of yourself instead. again, all different options to discuss with him.
however, i agree with you about the porn thing. my boyfriend doesn't actually watch it and never has. i hate porn for a variety of reasons i cannot be bothered to list here, but i also consider it cheating. i don't understand how people DON'T consider it cheating. i'm on your side about being upset that your boyfriend watches it
if his friend was to strip on webcam and he got off to it, that would be considered cheating, so why should it be any different with a stranger? even people not in a relationship i think lower off if they watch porn. but that's a slightly different discussion to the one here...
but TALK TO HIM. he's the one doing it, he's the only one who can expliain why he's doning it, if you don't talk to him he won't know that you're upset and nothing will get better, let him know how you feel, and try to come to some sort of arrangement where you're both happy.
if you have a problem with something he's done, talk to him about it. don't be confrontational and aggressive just say 'when looking in your history for the holiday websites, i noticed a porn website, you know i don't like you watching porn so i wondered why you did it?'. talk about it. don't accuse him, and listen to his side of the story.
but also if a guy doesn't have a 'release' for a long time tesosterone levels go up, and it gets physically uncomfortable for them, and their 'little friend' will be up almost permanently.
discuss options with him, he needs a release, could you have phone conversations which he could 'enjoy' in that way? suggest he reads erotica instead if you're okay with that? if you're over 18 (otherwise it's child pornography and he can get done), perhaps give him raunchy pictures of yourself instead. again, all different options to discuss with him.
however, i agree with you about the porn thing. my boyfriend doesn't actually watch it and never has. i hate porn for a variety of reasons i cannot be bothered to list here, but i also consider it cheating. i don't understand how people DON'T consider it cheating. i'm on your side about being upset that your boyfriend watches it
if his friend was to strip on webcam and he got off to it, that would be considered cheating, so why should it be any different with a stranger? even people not in a relationship i think lower off if they watch porn. but that's a slightly different discussion to the one here...
but TALK TO HIM. he's the one doing it, he's the only one who can expliain why he's doning it, if you don't talk to him he won't know that you're upset and nothing will get better, let him know how you feel, and try to come to some sort of arrangement where you're both happy.
Give the guy a break. The thing associated with watching porn is a biological necessity. If he didn't use online stuff I guarantee you it would be via other means (mags etc, not other women), and this is what you may force him in to doing.
It's not like he's cheating on you, is it? Be realistic here.. unless you're around every day then he needs something of the sort.
It's not like he's cheating on you, is it? Be realistic here.. unless you're around every day then he needs something of the sort.
You've got every reason to worry about it. If he's lying about this, who knows what else he'd lie about?
But yeah, as other people have said - it's cookies, not the site history that the site will remember.
But yeah, as other people have said - it's cookies, not the site history that the site will remember.
talk to him as opposed to trying to play the "detective" role? :/
Original post by Rachel_Leah
It looks like he has been on it again and saved the answer or something which most websites allow you to do. I don't think you're looking into it too far at all, every relationship has its insecurities and if that's one you are not happy with he should respect that, regardless of what miniman tells him to do. Confront him x
No it doesn't, even the OP knew there was an alternative, and while obviously adequate with a computer, she's clearly not the most tech savvy needing to ask.
I'm keeping out of the argument in here, it's going inane from both sides of it, but don't tell the OP things like that, when she's obviously a little paranoid about it, when you don't actually know! Being the only one actually answering the original question, and wrongly at that, you could make the OP start an argument that clearly doesn't need to be had!
Cookies like that are rarely invalidated and most don't have their browsers set to clear them out. Some, which I'm guessing is the OP if it's gone after that short a time, do have them set to clear out. The truth is, it doesn't mean anything either way, there's nothing like enough to say if he has or not.
Original post by Evil Monkey
No it doesn't, even the OP knew there was an alternative, and while obviously adequate with a computer, she's clearly not the most tech savvy needing to ask.
I'm keeping out of the argument in here, it's going inane from both sides of it, but don't tell the OP things like that, when she's obviously a little paranoid about it, when you don't actually know! Being the only one actually answering the original question, and wrongly at that, you could make the OP start an argument that clearly doesn't need to be had!
Cookies like that are rarely invalidated and most don't have their browsers set to clear them out. Some, which I'm guessing is the OP if it's gone after that short a time, do have them set to clear out. The truth is, it doesn't mean anything either way, there's nothing like enough to say if he has or not.
I'm keeping out of the argument in here, it's going inane from both sides of it, but don't tell the OP things like that, when she's obviously a little paranoid about it, when you don't actually know! Being the only one actually answering the original question, and wrongly at that, you could make the OP start an argument that clearly doesn't need to be had!
Cookies like that are rarely invalidated and most don't have their browsers set to clear them out. Some, which I'm guessing is the OP if it's gone after that short a time, do have them set to clear out. The truth is, it doesn't mean anything either way, there's nothing like enough to say if he has or not.
I think I'm being a bit more respectful than keeping telling her that all boys need to **** watching porn and telling her that she is the problem, not him. I simply stated what it seemed like in my opinion, as my computer saves literally everything as I've told it to, so it's just what would happen from my point out view. I'm not assuming this is DEFINITELY the case, she just wanted opinions and I think I'm not the only one to give one on here lol. As the person underneath stated, by confront him I meant just talk to HIM rather than talking to us, then she would easily get to the bottom of it if it's bothering her x
Every guy ever will watch porn all the time and then will do whatever he needs to cover his tracks...
But the thing confirming you're 18 depends on many geeky browser settings inlcuding stuff like cookies so that's not really evidence that he has been looking at porn.
The best thing to do will be sort out your issues with him looking at it...
Also, decent browsers have a porn mode... i mean "private browsing mode"...
That is hot...
But the thing confirming you're 18 depends on many geeky browser settings inlcuding stuff like cookies so that's not really evidence that he has been looking at porn.
The best thing to do will be sort out your issues with him looking at it...
Also, decent browsers have a porn mode... i mean "private browsing mode"...
Original post by Loz17
I watch porn all the time (more than my partner) and it means nothing.
That is hot...
(edited 13 years ago)
Original post by Colour Me Pretty
Many reasons. For one it's an acceptable release of sexual tension plus it's a good way of spicing up the sex life.
Porn is just about getting gratification, no guy would touch a porn star in real life so I fail to see why people get anxious about it.
Porn is just about getting gratification, no guy would touch a porn star in real life so I fail to see why people get anxious about it.
seconded.
Man without porn is a very very horny being. Unless your willing to "put out" 10-15 times a day, i wouldn't complain.
Because sex that often would probably erode your vagina, and no one likes eroded vagina.
Because sex that often would probably erode your vagina, and no one likes eroded vagina.
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