But your BF would get his ass kicked by 90% of young males.
Which is awful, because fighting is super important. So important, in fact, that I'm going to remove all references to my academic achievements from my CV and replace them with a list of injuries I have caused people. Then I'm going to walk outside and punch the biggest man I can find in the face, so that all the girls will love me.
I'm one of those men. There's a few things I'd like to different (e.g. not being so skinny) but I'm not unhappy with, but there's one massive thing about my body that I hate, which is my height, I despise being small.
Normal people > Hulks who look like they live in the gym. Get toned etc sure, but that's just excessive.
Nah, the fact that Arnie gets bishes is clearly proof of this. Maybe in our current feminine age with girls crying over skinny-jean wearing dudes, but back when he was in his prime and that kind of masculinity was admired but most older women still prefer his physiques. His was actually getting paid to live in the gym so I don't see much of a problem.
Normal people > Hulks who look like they live in the gym. Get toned etc sure, but that's just excessive.
Not everybody goes to the gym for the aesthetics. Personally I go to increase strength and my lifts. I couldn't care less how large/small my muscles are.
I'm 20 y/o and my face and body aren't perfect. However, I know for a fact that over the next 50 years I'm going to get older, fatter and uglier until I can't bare to look myself in the mirror any longer. Because of this, I'm appreciating my looks while they lasts
Not everybody goes to the gym for the aesthetics. Personally I go to increase strength and my lifts. I couldn't care less how large/small my muscles are.
Yes well I go to the gym too, to gain muscle. There's nothing wrong with wanting to improve your appearance, but there's a point where it just gets to be too much IMO. I'm not into skinny, like someone else was suggesting, I actually quite like big arms and toned features, but not so much so that he ends up looking like his life depends on getting super-hench.
I still can't believe there are guys out there who think they have to look like that to attract most girls tbf.