People get very defensive about age. Jeez- some women like older men, so what! tbh i wouldnt give a damn if the older men i fancy were a bit younger because it would make both parties more compatible (ie, two people of uni age will have similar time /money as each other), as long as their personality was the same. But we cant pick and choose who we fancy. And its hardly ever a neat package of a "perfect" partner, well for me anyway. You accept your attracted to the person and then see if you could live with the differences like age gaps