Muslims that still live with parents + going out

I don't usually like the stuff you say, but this time I actually agree with you. If you are overbearing and controlling then you will push them away into the wrong direction. I've seen it happen a number of times. That's why (from what I see) some Asian girls rebel, because they don't want to be controlled, they want a life and being overly controlled drives them more to the 'negative' aspects of Western culture and away from Islamic principles - e.g. sex before marriage, binge drinking, etc.

And here was me thinking you were my biggest fans

salam guys,
if you get kıds, would you REALLY be ok with them goint out at night and clubbing? Wouldn't you be protective and want to preserve them from bad influences? We all know what stuff people do in clubs etc.... Stop kidding yourselves. Not half of you will let your sons and daughters do the stuff you've written down.

My parents are pretty relaxed about me and my sisters about going out. We don't have any curfews. I should also mention my parents are pretty strict Muslims but it may just be the fact that they trust us alot.

I'm 17 if that matters.

..and your a guy. Unfortunately same rules don't usually apply with girls.

I agree with you on this My parents have been quite strict on me, in terms of going out etc, but I'm glad that they were like that. If I had been left to my own devices, I'd probably be a druggie or a teenage mum (with the environment in school and with my friends), but they've always been against letting me go out extremely late, or letting me hang around with guys (I only speak to them in class, I don't have any of the guys from school on facebook or anything). Before you guys ask, my parents aren't overly religious in the sense that the women are forced to take hijab and aren't allowed to step foot outside the house. My parents have given my sisters and I the freedom to be as religious as we want in terms of prayer and clothing, however, they have always been against the traditionally forbidden stuff like alcohol, pre marital sex, and so we too are against that kind of thing. I'm happy that my parents took that decision to be strict on us girls, or god knows what could have happened under peer pressure and what not.

salam guys,
if you get kıds, would you REALLY be ok with them goint out at night and clubbing? Wouldn't you be protective and want to preserve them from bad influences? We all know what stuff people do in clubs etc.... Stop kidding yourselves. Not half of you will let your sons and daughters do the stuff you've written down.

I might get lots of negs, but be thankful for having protective parents.

Yes, they're muslim. They believe in strict gender roles, so the women cook for the men - anything her brothers want she has to make. She can't leave until she married a muslim, I suppose, but will anything even change then?

I said me and my sisters.

please tell me what's wrong with clubbing?

So your sisters can go out whenever they want and come back whenever they want, or do they have a curfew and is their curfew the same time as yours?

The girls a muslim.

To start with alcohols prohibited in Islam.

You don't have to drink alcohol in clubs...

But its an alcohol-like enviroment?
Also clubs are normally gender mixing, which is haraam and listening to music and dancing with random people is haram.

Clubs are definately haraam.