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Old 2 Weeks Ago: 7th November 2009 13:57 #1 
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Unhappy I'm male. I am 18. I suffer from delayed ejaculation - I can't orgasm inside a girl.
 
Anon or delete please.

For those of you who do not know what delayed ejaculation is:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/s...hysical_causes

"Delayed ejaculation is the inability to ejaculate or persistent difficulty in achieving orgasm despite the presence of normal sexual desire and sexual stimulation. Normally a man achieves orgasm within 2-4 minutes of active thrusting during sexual intercourse,[1] whereas a man with delayed ejaculation either does not have orgasms at all or has orgasms after prolonged intercourse which might last 30-45 minutes or more. In most cases delayed ejaculation presents the condition in which the man can climax and ejaculate only during masturbation, but not during sexual intercourse."

"Between 1 to 4 % of males suffer from delayed ejaculation to some degree" but i think this references older males, whereas I am 18

I am in a very embarrassing situation.

I have had sex about 120 times with 5 different girls, and i have only ever orgasmed once whilst inside a girl (after two and a half hours of solid thrusting). Even the time when i lost my virginity, i couldn't orgasm after thrusting for over an hour.

For those of you who did read the articles i posted and are trying to deduce the reasons:
I do not masturbate because it takes two long... (although i an coax myself to orgasm)
I would describe myself as 100% straight. There is no chance of "latent homosexuality" as suggested in one of the articles.

I feel like im letting my current girlfriend down and she is getting increasingly frustrated at her inability to coax me to orgasm. I have been dumped once due to my sexual inadequacy. I really really like the girl i am with at the moment and love having sex but i cannot climax.

I dont know what to do Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you resolve it?

Thank you.
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Anon or delete please.

For those of you who do not know what delayed ejaculation is:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/s...hysical_causes



"Between 1 to 4 % of males suffer from delayed ejaculation to some degree" but i think this references older males, whereas I am 18

I am in a very embarrassing situation.

I have had sex about 120 times with 5 different girls, and i have only ever orgasmed once whilst inside a girl (after two and a half hours of solid thrusting). Even the time when i lost my virginity, i couldn't orgasm after thrusting for over an hour.

For those of you who did read the articles i posted and are trying to deduce the reasons:
I do not masturbate because it takes two long... (although i an coax myself to orgasm)
I would describe myself as 100% straight. There is no chance of "latent homosexuality" as suggested in one of the articles.

I feel like im letting my current girlfriend down and she is getting increasingly frustrated at her inability to coax me to orgasm. I have been dumped once due to my sexual inadequacy. I really really like the girl i am with at the moment and love having sex but i cannot climax.

I dont know what to do Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you resolve it?

Thank you.
go to the doctors m8
and you've had sex 18- times?! jeeezus! some ppl have neva had sex even till their like 25, atleast you've had it
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lol i wouldnt wanna jizz in 2-4 mins. i sorta suffer from the same problem but meh
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Anon or delete please.

For those of you who do not know what delayed ejaculation is:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_ejaculation
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/s...hysical_causes



"Between 1 to 4 % of males suffer from delayed ejaculation to some degree" but i think this references older males, whereas I am 18

I am in a very embarrassing situation.

I have had sex about 120 times with 5 different girls, and i have only ever orgasmed once whilst inside a girl (after two and a half hours of solid thrusting). Even the time when i lost my virginity, i couldn't orgasm after thrusting for over an hour.

For those of you who did read the articles i posted and are trying to deduce the reasons:
I do not masturbate because it takes two long... (although i an coax myself to orgasm)
I would describe myself as 100% straight. There is no chance of "latent homosexuality" as suggested in one of the articles.

I feel like im letting my current girlfriend down and she is getting increasingly frustrated at her inability to coax me to orgasm. I have been dumped once due to my sexual inadequacy. I really really like the girl i am with at the moment and love having sex but i cannot climax.

I dont know what to do Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you resolve it?

Thank you.

I've got exactly this, it's weird, not resolved it because i haven't viewed it as a mega problem. Maybe I should see Doc.
 
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120 times? Is this an ego-massage?
 
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Fake it?
i have faked it before...
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Do boys have sex toys which can help with this? Like vibrators for girls help... is there a male equivalent of a vibrator?
 
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Originally Posted by legendstar
go to the doctors m8
and you've had sex 18- times?! jeeezus! some ppl have neva had sex even till their like 25, atleast you've had it
but ive only ever cum once..... O_O
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Do boys have sex toys which can help with this? Like vibrators for girls help... is there a male equivalent of a vibrator?
A person? Men can have it all!
 
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I have had sex about 120 times with 5 different girls, and i have only ever orgasmed once whilst inside a girl (after two and a half hours of solid thrusting). Even the time when i lost my virginity, i couldn't orgasm after thrusting for over an hour.
Effort for you having kids!!!
Go see a doctor I bet they could help...
 
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This made me lol, could this girl still walk?
she said i was the best sex she had ever had? little did she know it was the best sex i have ever had

no other girl has let me go on for so long. they all give up !!!
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this isnt a problem, this is a blessing
its a curse!!!

i HATE IT!!!

i am so jealous of everyone else popping in 2 minutes!

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atleast you can go on for 1 hour, people ejackulate so quick, they feel tired withen 5mins of sex...lol
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Stop masturbating? wiki seems to indicate that could be a physical causation.
 
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Do boys have sex toys which can help with this? Like vibrators for girls help... is there a male equivalent of a vibrator?

Their hand? lol
 
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120 times? Is this an ego-massage?

How would that work?

120 times, 5 girls. So 24 times per girl.

If he was in a relationship with these girls, and had sex with them, say, three times a week - that's just an 8 week relationship.

Not really an ego massage, just pretty normal?
 
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Google.. "Fleshlight"

Ha! Don't have to. That has been bought as a birthday present for a friend of mine before...
 
 
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