Going to lose my virginity this week: ADVICE?

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Reply 20

abc:)

Original post by iamsuperwoman

Oh shut up, free country I will post what I like! Cheers!

And as such, I will reply in whatever way I like!!

sounds spontaneous.

Original post by Kage

These two quotes make it seem like you are not ready at all. It's not something to rush into, and want 'over with'

Original post by Todd

I agree =/ also the fact you're planning it and anticipating it weeks in advance is probably not helping!! My first time was so easy and fun because I didn't know it was going to happen, I'd been with my partner for a few months and it just felt right, there was no stress of anxiety.

I have been ready for a year and I know I want it. I want to get the actual virginity''out of the way'' because I know that single night will be the worse sex of my life and so of course I want to get through it, just so I can get to the good bits!

I'm 20 and with a respect and loving guy who has waited two years for me. Geezo.

Reply 23

Kage

Original post by Anonymous

Won't be the worst sex of your life if you don't think of it like that. As the first time, it should be considered special, as you are learning each other. If you consider it the "worst" time you ever will have sex, then I feel sorry for you two.

Reply 24

Frankie_say_relax

Original post by iamsuperwoman

Don't do it! Wait until marriage! :smile:

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Excellent idea! Now what's the plan if the guy turns out to be totally incompetent at sex, has a chronic STD or some other chronic condition which might affect his ability to give good sexy time....?

Oh wait... it's actually a **** idea. :rolleyes:

Yeh it's a free country and you can say what you like, but that doesn't change the fact that religious beliefs like that are simply retarded.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 25

Anonymous #3

As long as you are ready and know it is with the right person (or at least a nice person) then you will be fine.
Honestly, by expecting it to hurt then it will hurt. As long as you relax, and maybe he puts it in slowly after copious foreplay it really should hurt at all.

I was told it being inside hurt which it didn't at all. Also I expected the opening bit to hurt when it went in and due to friction, but honestly, if you are horny enough once it's in at least it should hurt at all if it does hurt it shouldn't be a lot.

Reply 26

Anonymous #3

Oh yeah, as well people say as well the first time is probably the worst but that isn't always true, for me I'd say it was one of the best.

Reply 27

bradfriedal24

Original post by Anonymous

Oh yeah, as well people say as well the first time is probably the worst but that isn't always true, for me I'd say it was one of the best.

thas cos uve only done t 1ce

Reply 28

Shelly_x

Original post by Anonymous

You can't rely on other peoples experiences, yours may be completely different. My first time was very enjoyable and not painful at all. My advice would be not to plan it, just let it happen :smile:

Reply 29

gintoki

Original post by Kage

Very wise words.

Reply 30

bradfriedal24

Original post by gintoki

Very wise words.

oh jolly yes very wise indeed

Reply 31

strawberry

Please remember that the Sexual Health forum rules are that sex tips are NOT allowed.

Reply 32

4metal

Original post by Anonymous

I am 20 and I am ready to have sex. I'm quite scared (just of the pain and the intrusion) but otherwise prepared emotionally and mentally ready.

What advice can anyone offer me? Or give me some insight on their first time?

I think it will be later on in the week (Friday or Saturday) so I have time to make arrangements.

You could auction it on e-bay. :biggrin:

Reply 33

TEFLONCHEST

Original post by Anonymous

I've never been worried about that thing, let it be all natural :]

Reply 34

Above.The.Empyrean

Go as slow as possible. Make his penis take approximately 1 cm/30 seconds insertion time. It's the standardised unit for first-time penetration.

Reply 35

Inverse

Original post by iamsuperwoman

Don't do it! Wait until marriage! :smile:

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Please refrain from dictating your fallacious opinion regarding pre-martial sex. I and many others could care less about your opinion, but when you attempt to instruct others how to live their lives, especially when they are adults, you should take a hint and **** off.

This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC One X